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Coming to terms with the reality of love

by Anelisa

We need to love and be loved no matter what age because when we stop loving we stop living. Love is life. The saying that love makes the world go around evolved after much life experience in humanity. No matter how much we have been hurt or how often, we still must have faith in love. Wisdom in love leads us to find new ways to love and be loved.

Everyone received the amount of love he or she deserves. So it says in a book of love written about a century ago. It is no different today! We are so consumed by wanting to be loved that we don't stop and think about how we are loving.

How easy it is to say I love you. So often it is a joke since it doesn't come from the heart nor with the commitment. How unjust this is! Our love may not be open, potent, nor irrisistable. It may lack honesty, virtue, or gratitude. It may not be sublime!

Some men die without ever truly loving a woman or ever being loved by a woman.

Lucky are those who love and be loved. Lovers need not fear lightening, cyclones, hurricanes, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, fires, asteroids, or any other earthly or other fears from the universe. Lovers are envied by those who are not in love and give joy to all. If you want to conserve and preserve the fire of your love for eternity then that love must be the jewel of your life. That fire must always be bright and give light because an enemy of love is boredom.

Our times and our world today is drunk with sex which is not love but a means to express the love we have in our mind, heart, and soul. Sex is the physical expression of love but empty without love. It was no different in the past but we may be the first century who is so ingnorant about love. To love for an hour is animalistic. To love for a day is typical of men. To love for a lifetime is like the angels. To love only one woman is to be like God.

Many have loved with all their mind, heart, and soul only to be betrayed. When this happens we need to be consoled by the fact that you can fall in love again. There are many people out there who we can love and be loved by them. Just be open to love every day?

Insults can kill love so we need to watch the words we use even when we are so hurt and angry. Shame has no place in love because it is the light of all lights which brilliantly shines forever. It is the heat which warms the coldness within us. Love is so very sweet and captures our total being.

The woman a man loves is always an angel who is also a mother, sister, daughter, and lover to man. A woman


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