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What makes a woman sexy?

A woman's sexiness is not a precise formula, but is rather a complex concoction of charm, charisma, confidence, conversation, composure, cleverness, and of course, attractiveness. Sexiness is a woman's ability to continually inspire the sexual curiosity of a man, through her appearance and attitude.

The defining feature of a sexy woman is that she manages to gravitate a man's sexual thoughts continuously and spontaneously in her direction, even when she is absent. She is timeless in the face of other female novelties, and never becomes a fleeting memory. In fact, a man who has experienced her does not satisfy his curiosity. He instead thrives on her energy and desires her more.

A sexy woman is the mystique that mirrors and matches a man's masculinity. To understand what a sexy woman IS, we must first substantiate what a sexy woman is NOT.

*A sexy woman is not always erotic. Turning a man on does not necessarily stimulate his sexual curiosity. Any decent looking woman clad in a short skirt, tight top, with a toned tush and chiselled cleavage can arouse a man. A sexy woman does far more. She manages to weave herself into the inner echelons of the man's mind, making him not simply lust, but also wonder about her. She remains tangled in the web of his thoughts long after his erection has gone soft. She constantly evokes in him the most far-fetched fantasies, even under the most innocent and platonic of circumstances.

*A sexy woman is not necessarily exceptionally beautiful or hot. There is a subtle difference between a sexy woman and a beautiful one. Some women are beautiful "eye candy" but lack a sexually engaging element that continually fuels a man's interest. Some women look less than a perfect ten, yet their composure and cleverness enhances their sex appeal tenfold. And some, the true mistresses of seduction, are both beautiful and sexy.

*A sexy woman is not a product of an aesthetic or cosmetic routine. Sexy woman are comfortable in their skin and that is precisely why they are so confident. True sexiness is only semi based on tangible aesthetics; the rest is an aesthetic display of intangible qualities that challenge a man to recognize the woman's sophistication. A sexy woman does not flaunt herself and scream "look at me"; she rather unravels herself, catching the man's peripheral gaze, until he cannot help but always look at her.

So what does make a woman so irresistibly sexy, that a man is continually attracted to her?

*A sexy woman is instinctually smart.


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