by A. D. McDowell

Created on: July 30, 2008   Last Updated: May 14, 2011

We've all heard the saying, "actions speak louder than words". In the case of expressing your love for some one, this saying truly defines how you go about saying, "I love you". Too often is the case that our actions do not back our words. If some one tells me over and over that they love me, yet fail to meet my physical and emotional needs, I must stop and ask, "Do you really love me"?

Men and women speak different "love" languages. It is important that we communicate exactly what we need from our partners. However, more importantly, we must learn to 'listen' to our partners in order that we may effectively meet their needs. We all like that 'top of the world' feeling of being in love. Likewise, we all have those little things that make our hearts soar and cause us to say "Aahhh" as we get those warm fuzzies.

So, how can we express that love to our significant other with out using words? Does this expression have to be in romantic terms or are there other ways to express love?

Send him a letter, a card or simply a little love note. Not the ones sent because it's a birthday or special occasion. However, it's the unexpected ones that make your partner know that you truly took the time to think about them. While surfing online, drop in to any online site and send a cute or romantic e-card to the one you love. Better yet, a hand written note or card sent through the mail will definitely be a surprise when they check the mailbox. Or better yet, hide yellow post-it notes while your lover is asleep. I find this to be a spark that starts a fire. Guys love it when you leave little suggestive notes around. For example, place one on his car window telling him he drives you wild.

Ask about his day. This goes a long way. Simplying showing the one you're with that you are genuinely interested in what goes on in his life. Even better, before his day begins, send him a quick text message telling him to "have a great day". You'd be surprised the smile that lights his face as you help jump start his day on a positive note.

Do things for one another. Volunteer to run errands for one another when you know you have free time in your day. He may pick your car up, have the oil changed and have it washed and waxed for you. To your guy, this is his way of taking care of you. He's ensuring that you're ride not only runs well, but looks good too. This is an expression of your importance in his life. It may not be high on the romantic side, but it does prove that he's looking out for

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