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ambience with some fresh cut flowers and then dim the lights, light some candles, and enjoy a bottle of your favorite wine.

How to Spice Up the Romance in Your Relationship pg.2

3) Get in the mood with some nice, soothing music. Get up close and personal by dancing cheek-to-cheek with your bodies touching ever so closely? You don't have to go out for a night on the town to do this. Put on some Luther Vandross or Barry White and let the romance beginin the kitchen, living room or bedroom. Dancing helps to keep romance alive and it is fun and a way for couples to positively connect with one another.

Touch and kiss each other at every opportunity, and this includes those non-sexual moments. Kissing and touching isn't always about foreplay before sex takes place. And make those kisses passionate! Pecks on the cheek are for children and not for mature lovers.

4) Try reading sexy literature to each other in bed or when you are cuddled up together on the couch. Take turns being the narrator and if asked to re-read a particularly erotic scene, do so with a little re-enactment. Role playing can be very enticing and a lot of fun! Women, in particular, enjoy the sound of their lover's voice as he reads steamy fiction to her in a romantic setting.

I, personally, love it when my husband writes me a romantic letter because I know it came straight from his heart.

5) Most importantly, don't be afraid to communicate your sexual desires and try to be as open-minded as you were back then. But don't be afraid to let him know what you don't like. He shouldn't be offended if he wants to please you.

Make this summer your time for fun, fantasy and fulfillment! You may discover, just as I have, that he makes you hotter than a hot flash!

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