There is an old saying that Marriages are destined in Heaven . Is it so, if it is like that then why in recent times Divorces run parallel along with Marriages?

Marriage is a divine agreeement between a Man and a Woman irrespective of the fact wher it is soleminised and on whose presence it takes place. The binding and most important part of it is to safeguard the relationship till death of any one of the spouses.

What the life partners need to understand is that to have a mutual understanding and have a give and take policy for any matters that is assocaited with family life, whether it is tense, light , serious concerning finance etc.

Above all what I feel is that it is the woman who should take the upper hand to knit the family together in unison with utmost dedication and application and patience.

Nowadays, since women also enjoy the same status like men in society and family especially becuase they are also an earning member they dont want to be calm and patientlike women in olden times.

My Father and Mother celebrated their fiftieth wedding Anniversary recently. Iand all my relatives were amongst a big social gathering and everyone was of the opinion that they have achieved the Zenith of glory of their married life.

I have never seen them having any sorts of misunderstanding or difference in opinion all these years . They have lived a magnificent life with utmost faith, mutual understanding, give and take policy, patience etc. My Mother was a typical example of how a woamn has to be in order to lead a happy life and fulfill it with cent percent longevity.

My grandmother used to tell that a Woman should have patience like the Mother Earth. And how true it is and nowadays this is what is lacking in women and this is one of the main reasons why Family Life is on to the road of utter deterioration.

Women should understand the importance of a family life and how they should take care of it and protect it and be within the preamble to safeguard it and listen to their spouses with pateince and self respect. This is applicable even for Men . They should also respect their spouses .

But women are the ones who should hold together the family under any circumstances and show an example how good a women can be and what an important role a woman has to play to have harmony and peace in a family.

So, it is the women who should not feel offended that their are being treated as underdogs but on the other hand should think positively that they are sacrificing their lives for bringing up a very good family life and posting those family requirements and duties to reach and follow the pinnacle of its rules, regulations , constitution and fulfilment of a hygenic family life engrossed with peace and serenity.

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