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How to let go of someone you love

by Odunuga

Created on: July 09, 2008

This piece of writing is a key way of solving some common dating problems. It is how to handle a non reciprocated love while dating. It is a way of helping those whose men are about checking out. For all those ladies who are trying hard to win a man's heart. How to know when to let go and move on with your life .Are you a lady in relationship with a man that appear to be your charming prince but he is not responding to your love and advances as you expected? Have you observed that he is always giving excuses of why he forgot certain important dates that matter in your life? Is he avoiding to be introduced to your family? Did you feel that he is on the run like some have fled from you in the past? They left you heart broken and you feel that all men are the same. You are now convinced that: there are no sincere men out there?

Is this guy showing you mixed actions and confusing reactions? Is he behaving in a split image personality kind of? Is he showing a side today and another side tomorrow? Is he playing double roles? He is playing a lover and an enemy at another time? Is his tactics difficult to be freed from? Is he showing those traits that make you feel that you need to do more to win him over completely? Is he becoming an unreliable lover suddenly? Is it that his image keep coming to you in your dreams despites your understanding that he is cheating on you? And you are finding it difficult to be free from him? And characteristics becoming totally confusing?

Is it that he tells you at a point that you are the only one he loves, that he will never leave you, that he will pluck the moon for you but at another time, he says he is skeptical or he wants to move on into something new? That he is not even sure of his future? That he does not know for sure if he really wants to settle down yet? He is he the kind of guy you want, such that he is just the perfect match for you but you are constantly struggling over him? Such questions and more? You are not alone.

You see the way to pin him down is not by manipulations. It is not in forcing him to consent into get married to you sooner than his convictions. You see when a guy ask you that how can he mange his time? Or he is trying to figure out his life; or he needs a space to think, or he is always too busy to attend to you, those may be red signals that he is about checking out. So how do you know for sure that he is on the run? If:

He stops giving you enough attention,

When he cannot introduce you to new friends as

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