by Dr. G. A. Anderson

Created on: July 04, 2008   Last Updated: April 07, 2010

Is there really prejudice in the fashion industry against big, beautiful women? One may believe there is, but in truth, it is a matter of perception. If a woman wears plus sizes and generally lives life in sweat pants and one of her old maternity tops, or the same pair of old jeans and a T-shirt, she's obviously not too concerned. It may not be surprising to hear her bashing the fashion industry for only creating super-model styles if she hasn't bothered to take a look at the latest plus-size fashions on the market.

Women heading out the front door of a store after just five minutes when there were great plus-size fashions inside is a result of the quick look-around and the belief that there are no large-sized items available in that store. Is it really the case that "skinny clothing" is all there is? Perhaps women who complain loudest are those who...

* haven't taken the time and looked thoroughly around the store, or asked a salesperson for help

* haven't looked for stylish clothing lately because they don't believe it exists on the market

* are embarrassed to shop due to their weight issues

* haven't found the right stores.

(Granted, there are stores who specialize in clothing suited to only the super-thin among us.)

There are the discount stores that cater to average figures and stick with Misses sizes 6-18 generally, with Women's sizes in a different department. The quality in fabric and manufacturing is not usually good. Even in the smaller sizes, the quality is not up to par. Needless to say, the larger sizes, when available, are not going to be quality pieces, either.

There is a time, though, when we have to conserve our resources but still want "the look" we're after or we need something for an occasion and cannot afford the better clothing stores. In that case, a discount store may be the better option. Perhaps there will be something suitable in your size, but understand that this garment probably will not last long. That said, if you find yourself in this situation, save the money and go with less expensive items to be able to outfit yourself for an event.

For some women, it's always difficult to shop for clothing because no matter whether they're wearing a size 8 or a size 20, they may wear mismatched sizes; for example, they may wear larger tops or bottoms. In this case, you can't wear dresses very well, so opt for mix and match items to create a variety of outfits that fit well and suit any occasion.

It's possible to find some stores specializing in larger sizes and providing good quality for less cost. Lane Bryant, Chadwick, and even J.C. Penney's have great assortments of plus-size clothing that can fit into almost everyone's budget. The best way to shop is in person to be sure of the fit and that the quality is there in the fabric and workmanship of the clothing. You will probably pay a little more, but look for sales and shop wisely. With proper care, these items will likely hold up better, as well.

Sure, there are many manufactures who target the slim and super-slim for their fashions, but the experienced plus-size woman will shop around to find the best and most stylish creations available. When you've found a good place to shop and really like their selections, stick with them for a wardrobe of stylish pieces as they enter the market. With a little detective work and perseverance on your part, you'll find great-looking outfits that match your figure and personality, and you'll soon forget about discrimination in the fashion industry.

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