by Amy Gallagher

Created on: June 30, 2008

Look on my Last Year of Life

My life has changed so much in the last year of my life. Actually, I probably should say that my life, as well as me, changed drastically. So much as changed on the individual level, love life, and social life, just to name a few.
First, last September, I took a huge step. I moved away from home, at least for eight months. I began my first year of university and lived in residence. Last summer, I had no idea how huge of a step it would be. Sure my father had told me, but what did I know? It made me independent. Living in residence helped begin to find out what type of person I am and want to be. Okay, yes, I have 50% of my dad's genes and 50% of my mother's; I am half of who they are. But I wanted to move away from that idea.

I learned a lot about what I am passionate about, which is what I went there to do. Like pretty much everyone there. But I also found myself learning about me, as well.
I acquired a lot of self-confidence, which I didn't have living at home. It was something new to me and it felt good. I believe that it also helped the way I acted with others and in scenes for my Acting classes in the Drama Department, which is one of my chosen fields.
I was able to really develop a way of thinking of my own. A way of thinking that is purely my own and not affected by my parents. I have been able to make my own thoughts about various different subjects, as well as learn other people's views about this topic.
And then, I met my partner. I soon found myself being a daughter and a sister, as well as a fiance, partner, a daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, and aunt. I agree that some of these roles are not definite yet, but will be soon enough. It is something that I am proud of. I am proud to have these roles, even though not many 20 year olds have this role.
I now work at a woman's shelter. It is true that it is not always easy, but I really enjoy it. This perhaps also has to do with another of my fields of study. I enjoy working with the people at the shelter. At the end of the day, I am happy with the job I have. I don't know if I will be given this opportunity next summer. I hope so, but for now, I am happy that I have the chance of working there this summer. That's what really matters.
All this happened within seven to eight months. Some in my position may like to go back in time, but I am really happy of who I am now. Granted, it hasn't always been easy, but I don't regret a single thing. I am happy. I have a life that I can be proud of and happy of having. I refuse to give it up for anything.

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