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paper airplanes with them, or try to rub them on the dancers. Don't try to make change from the stage money or pick up anybody's money and try to put it in your pocket. All the money that hits the stage belongs to the dancers now.

If the situation arises and you find yourself being approached by dancers offering you their time always be polite. Remember it is free to talk but dancing costs and they are there to make money. Don't hold them for a long conversation unless you plan to ask them for a private dance. Don't underestimate the "not so attractive" dancers, because if you are nice to them, they may share this information with others. They may also be one of the girls that coordinate the after hour and private parties that you may want to attend. When conversing with the dancers always have a positive, passive attitude. This means you should show interest but let the conversation develop naturally and do not blurt out or beg for any information (phone numbers, addresses, breast sizes...etc).

Taking your dancers back for the private dance can and will be exciting but ask a few questions first. Don't assume all dances are the same. A local club in Richmond, Virginia offers lab dances, v.i.p. lap dances (where the dancer is mostly nude), and lets not forget the $500.00 champagne room ( I don't have $500.00 so I don't know). This is important information because you are allowed to do some touching in the v.i.p. dances but always ask about the rules in your establishment first. While getting the basic lap dances keep your hands to your side unless she grabs them and puts them on her body herself (happens more than you think). Only agree to accept dances that you can afford and only continue to pay for good service. Don't like the first dance, don't go for a second one.

At some point in travels to your new favorite establishment, you will become well known and the girls will be more comfortable with you. When they are comfortable with you, well son, you are in. That's when you get the best Bang Bang Bang for your buck.

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