by Christine Gilliam

Created on: June 25, 2008   Last Updated: July 02, 2008

What Guys Think About Women Sexuality

In the ultimate mating dance, women are at a distinct disadvantage in not knowing what guys want or think. Is it better to save yourself until the ring is on your finger, or do guys want someone who is just as eager as they seem to be when it comes to bedroom behavior? Rumors, advice columns and even what guys tell us in our relationships all contribute to the confusion. Just what do guys think is acceptable sexual behavior for today's woman? You might be surprised.

To answer these questions, we went straight to the horse's mouth. Three guys speak out about women sexuality and what guys wish women knew. James is married and in his mid forties. Brad is married and in his early thirties. Ryan is single and in his twenties. All three have chosen to remain anonymous in order to be candid in their responses.

Question: When it comes time to settle down, does the number of a woman's previous partners make difference to a guy?

James Yeah, it matters. I don't want a slut for a wife. Think about it, if she sleeps with just anyone, then what does that say about us? Would I be just another guy? I want someone who reserves the sex as special not a free for all.

Brad It always plays a part. You know, in the back of his mind he is wondering if he measures up to all these previous partners. It can make him wonder if she is thinking about him or someone else. It is human nature to compare, and just because someone is settling down, it doesn't change human nature.

Ryan No way. We are in the age of free love, brother. If everyone is doing it, no one is there to point fingers, right? Thinking in generalities, you have to understand the numbers. If I'm out having sex with all these women and I'm not the only one they are with, chances are when it comes time to settle down then it will be the same for both of us. It is purely a numbers game. When we are sowing our oats, we are doing it with somebody.

Question: Has the pop culture idea of "slutty" changed?

James Yes, our culture has changed the definition. "Slutty" is more about how you have your relationships. How you hold yourself, dress and your basic mannerisms determine whether you are "slutty" or not.

Brad It has changed. We are more desensitized as a culture. We are hardened with all the media and shock factor. Things that were considered "slutty" are just normal now.

Ryan Yes. It depends on how classy you are at sleeping around. Gossip and rumors can slaughter you or be your salvation. It is really

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