Modern Man's take on woman sexuality.
When I came across this topic I wondered, "What is a Modern Man?" I really did not have a clear idea. I know that I live in this modern world and I know for certain that I am a man. If that is the criteria then I freely give my answer with full confidence that my voice reflects men everywhere.
Since I am a modern man I can say with the utmost candor that woman sexuality is a bit of a conundrum. I have often wondered at the reason why woman so frankly portray promiscuity. Upon an occasion that rendered complete honesty as the only means of expression, I asked several attractive women, "Why do you dress slutty'?" Only one of them replied the others stared at me stone faced. She was a pale skinned blonde haired beauty with a white spandex top which had a neck line that exposed a generous amount of pale flesh, her top was stretched just enough to leave little to the imagination, her jeans fit snuggly around her slender waist accentuating her hips and long legs. She had the kind of beauty that would drive a man wild if he were left in her presence too long. What she said baffled me. She claimed that the reason women dressed slutty had nothing to do with men; it was a competition between women, the other women around her nodded in agreement. I actually said that she was lying; I made the comment that it seemed ridiculous to dress like a "slut" for competition with women rather than to attract a male. She fired back that I was a chauvinist and that I only thought between my legs. I retorted to the affect that in nature the males dress prettily to attract females so then why don't women do the same? I also stated that the more desperate a woman dresses the more desperate she seems to be. This got her attention; she claimed that she did not really think of the situation in that way. The next time I saw these women I was a little disappointed that I did not get to gaze upon their candid beauty and yet I was flattered that they actually listened. I smiled at them and they smiled back. Every now and then I see these women and they wave, although it would seem that they are not all that convinced of what I said to them, apparently not enough guys were paying attention.
If women are competing against women then it would seem that the rules cover a whole spectrum of different things including and especially sex. Women enjoy sex probably more than men. So then women really want to enjoy life to the extreme. I think that some women are too wrapped up in the game to actually realize any negative effects or perhaps some women just do not care. To base a relationship on just a physical aspect would lead to ruin. There are many factors that are involved with love, I am not saying that love at first sight does not happen and I am not saying that one night stands cannot produce a fruitful and long lasting relationship, but taken at face value the probability of such a thing happening is incredibly scant. To jump from one relationship to another is the dream that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Women loose their respectability in the eyes of men. When women constantly jump from relationship to relationship they make a statement that their inhibitions hold sway over the inevitable pull of responsibility. Integrity is the measure of an individual and women are no less affected by integrity than men. It would be within women's best interest to wait before wantonly throwing themselves into passion. If a man does not like the hold then drop him. It would be to your benefit to try and disprove the stereotype that men are only controlled by their sexual desires. A little restraint would establish a better relationship because a woman would know that the man is still interested beyond initial infatuation. He likes you because he respects you and because sex is not the big issue. If the man leaves because of your forbearance then he just proved what he wanted: sex.
I have grown tired of the over-drawn sexual proliferation; it wears on my being. I long for integrity and commitment, not skullduggery and promiscuity. I find that originality is far more attractive than going with the flow (particularly since the flow is "sexual freedom" an animal trait). I would just as soon leave my animal side and explore the world with a candor that only wide eyed wonder can express. When brought to the peak I will exercise it to a point of quenching and then I will move on to some other endeavor that gives reason to ethic and morality. I realize that I am human and am bound to err; I also realize that I should try not to blunder into the same routine that caused me to slip. That is how a person should live; having a woman who did not learn this fundamental thing would be wrong. A little screw up is far preferable to a lot of screw ups. It shows that one has learned and that s/he is capable of reason. How much chaos allowed should be left for the individual to discern. This is not just a thing for men, women should also take responsibility. It takes two to have a relationship that means it would be beneficial if both partners realized their position to the other.
Since I chose to speak up in the name of all "modern" men, I would have to say that each instance of women sexuality should be left to the individual. That is the only way love can be found!