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There are positive answers for this question. How could your partner love you in a negative way? That's not love. How to tell if your partner really loves you is: When you seem to be all they think about. They want to spend every min with you. Would do anything for you no matter what. Its not about the words "I love you" coming from there mouth its so much more than just saying it. You have to show it. And actions speak louder than words. They can show you better than they can tell you. They love to put a smile on your face. If he goes out of his way to do something for you. That is also a sign of love. When your partner really loves you they would never hurt you on purpose. They always let you know how they feel about you. They show you & respect you at all times. They will protect you and go out there way to keep you safe. They don't keep things from you. Some people say that your partner shows you love by buying you gifts, to show you they care. When they accept you for whom you are. Nothing more, nothing less. Accepting your past like, mistakes, your flaws and all. You can also tell by the way your partner looks at you. The way they act around you. They will cheer you up when you are feeling down. Catch your tears when you cry. Be there so you can have there shoulder to cry on. They can tell you anything. They tell you that they don't want to lose. They want to be with you despite your weaknesses. When your partner loves you its just an unexplainable feeling that you feel for them. And you'll just know. There not afraid to kiss you or hold you around there friends. And they would tell there friends about you. And talk about you a lot when there friends are around them. Also when your upset and you don't feel like talking to anyone else and they call you and ask you what is wrong and they take the time to listen to you. They give you your space when they feel that you need it. They can go around flirting with other people and everything but at the end of the day they always think about the person they truly care about. Its in the way the kiss you, the way they talk to you, touch you. When they take the time that they could be spending with their friends and spend it with you. When they actually care about what you say. They are helpful when needed. And understanding. If they really love you they would never want you to feel uncomfortable. They want to know all the little details of how you are feeling and what's been going on with you. They will share with you there insights and opinion on things. Be behind you 100% on the decision you make. Now if you don't call this real love? Then I guess I don't know what real love is!

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