Sex on the first date? Doesnt this depend on how good the date was?

We have a few interesting factors to throw into the mix.. Lets explore..

1. LUST.

This emotion is hot, horny and all "good" intentions will fly out of the window nearly as quick as your underwear when we acknowledge the powerful impact that this cheeky little devil offers. Hold onto your smalls, it takes no prisoners! Do not judge, just enjoy. Just as nature intended.

2. COMPATABILITY.

Did you "KNOW" the person prior to the date? If they were originally your friend then it might be the finale stage... so got for it! It could be the start of an amaaaaazing love affair... or years of pent up frustration! You will never know until you taste the goods, what is wrong with that? After all thousands of stories that have ended in marriage and its improved our dinner party coversations no end, who doesnt want to hold fort with fairy tale endings?

3. FRUSTRATION.

Ummmmmm, lets introduce promiscuous.. she is a foxy little emotion, and if it has been a while since the ebbs of pleasure have been stroked, then sometimes, the appeal of a pleasurable satisfying sex session hits the mark.

4. ALCOHOL.

Do I really need to expand on this one? Ok, lets think about this logically.. After a couple of cocktails EVERYBODY gets more tactile, and that leads to kissing. More drinks leads to being a bit fruity.. and then WHOOPS! Going with the flow ends up being the most cliche'd statement of the century. Oh Boy. Watch your intake, you never know what might happen. Hey, at least be careful! (Top Tip: Coyote Ugly)

5. VALIDATION.

Sexy? Maybe. Self confidence? Of course. Lets not butter this up people. Over the hill.. "They still have it" "flattery gets you everywhere" Occasionally...

5. CANT SAY NO?

The best bit of advice is always at the end... LEARN! Say NO when you need to, as if the first date was this awesome, then the second can only get better!

6. MY FINAL POINT (Well we have weigh up the pro's & con's at some point)

It's your decision. Have fun. Sod what everyone else thinks.

S = Sensual, or maybe a bit saucy
E = Exclusive or extroverted - whatever floats your boat.
X = X-trodinary (!)

Thats you that is.

To sum up, ignore the inner critic, if you feel sexy and want to go out and play then ignore the rule book. After all you are all adults living in a playful world.

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