by Abi Newman

Created on: June 18, 2008   Last Updated: January 19, 2009

Game players and issues, emotional imbalance is this a trait of most lesbians?
Or just an illusion we bring on ourselves?

Like many people in the world today it is easier to make a sweeping generalisation and tarnish everyone with the same brush' when people talk about cultural and sub-cultural groups.

We are, don't forget, this ever evolving throw away' society, the I-pod generation, the quick fix kids, a big group of people wanting answers to questions here and now the quicker the better so it would make sense to ask a question about a huge group of people and answer it with one simplified conclusion that applies to all.

But would this be the correct answer to the question

Are all Lesbians really game players?
Do most woman have issues?
Is an emotional imbalance' just a concept someone published in a self help book and sold the idea to millions?

I believe that a lot of the time in life you surround yourself with people that have an element of likeness to yourself, even if on the outside there are polar differences somewhere within your heart and mind there is always something that connects you, so if this is true, surely this tangled web that lesbians seem to lead is actually the very web that they themselves are producing.

Player meets player
Player then turn into a girl with issues
Player meets the girls with issues
Girls with issues meet girls with issues
Girls with issues feel emotional imbalanced and so it goes on and on until really you never know if you are meeting a girl on the tail end of having an issue or if in fact they are playing you left, right and centre.
So how are you actually meant to really see a person for who they are- laid bareno player guard up, no issues hiding who they really areno illusion.
Is the illusion that maybe we actually have a huge subculture of woman that appear to be a lot of lost little girls trying to find a happy ending? Looking for what they are missing in other people?

As your years of life clock up and you start to learn more and look within more you begin to realise that playing games with people on an emotional or physical level is nothing to be proud of, but with the years of life also come the lessons learned and that can make people especially woman use coping mechanisms and guard themselves with barriers.

Every fling you have, every kiss and touch, every relationship short or long has some kind of affect on you.
You can not always judge people on the forefront of there actions as people cope and deal with things in different

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