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10 things men wish women knew

Ever feel yourself glaring at your man of choice so bewildered of what they just said/did that you were left speechless? Does it behoove you how they can be so clueless sometimes? Don't know where to go from here? Then take a look below at the 10 things women wish men knew. If at any time you hear yourself let out a laugh in agreement or an, "Ain't that the truth sister," then calmly hand this article to him, smile and tell him to get studying!

1) PUT THE PEE PEE FROM THE WEE WEE IN THE TOILETY NOT THE SHOWER!
While urinating standing up is an impressive gift, when it's done in the shower, its just plain gross, unsanitary and smelly. Do you really want to stink up a potential amazing lovemaking spot? I didn't think so.

2) IT'S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY!
Give a woman the gift of your time and acknowledgement of how special she is to you, instead of working night and day just to afford expensive dates. Being genuine is more valuable than a fancy dinner in a crowded restaurant.

3) DON'T GIVE HER THE ANSWER
Show her you respect her enough to trust her decisions, whether they be ones you would have made or not. (Short from being illegal or harmful of course.) Unless she asks for it, don't feel it necessary to squeeze your idea into her head. Just support her. Most of the time she knows what she's doing. If it's a mistake it's her mistake to learn from. Don't take that away from her.

4) SHOW YOUR LOVE FOR HER BY BEING BLIND
In this case, the old saying, "Love is blind," can be construed a little differently. By viewing pornography or visiting exotic dance establishments, you will be relaying to her that you do not respect women. You are proving that you view them/her as nothing more than something to "get you off". Not only is this wrong, but it breaks her heart and robs the respect she may have once felt for you. Even if the occasional woman says they are "secure" enough to handle their man lusting after another woman's body, they are secretly testing you to see just how committed and in love with them you are. Don't screw it up!

5) MIND YOUR MOUTH!
As with any one you don't wish to offend, think before you speak. Women are blessed with the gift of emotional tenderness, though some may be harder than others, harsh words can still cut deep and be nearly impossible to forget. Whisper sweet nothings, not sour everything's.

6) MAKE YOUR COMPLIMENTS DIARETIC
No this does not mean congratulating her for a waste well done; but instead, flooding her


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