by Joe DeShon

Created on: December 28, 2006   Last Updated: May 09, 2007

Some of the greatest love lyrics that make me cry are in the song "Can you read my mind?" by Leslie Bricusse and John Williams. It was from the original Superman movie with Christopher Reeve and Margot Kidder. This song is amazing because it can be studied on so many levels.

Superman and Lois Lane are falling in love with each other, but they can't let the other one know about it. Superman doesn't want Lois to love him as Superman; that would be too dangerous. He wants her to love him as Clark Kent. Of course, Lois thinks that Clark is a bumbling fool. On the other hand, as a liberated woman who never had to rely on anybody else for help, she's not sure that she wants to give her heart to anyone, let alone an alien with super powers that she doesn't yet understand.

This is very early in Superman's career. He's not really even a super hero yet. Many people don't understand him. Some people believe he may even be evil. And, although people know he's strong and that he can fly, people don't know what other powers he has. Some have even postulated that he can read minds.

Lois is trying to figure him out. She knows that he can fly. And she knows he has x-ray vision. ("You can see right through me.") But she doesn't know if he can read minds.

So, as a test, she sings this song to herself. (Actually, during the movie, the John Williams score plays softly in the background while Margo Kidder softly recites the words.) "Can you read my mind? Can you picture the things I'm thinking of? You can fly! You belong to the sky! But you and I belong to each other. If you need a friend, I'm the one to fly to. Here I am... Read my mind."

In her mind, she's begging him to understand her. She smiles at him. He smiles back.

The irony, of course, is that he can't read her mind. He has no idea what she's dreaming of.

Why do we feel like we have to play games in relationships? Why can't we just say what we feel? Why can't Lois just declare her love for Superman? On the other hand, why is Superman so clueless that he has no idea what she's thinking?

Such is a microcosm of so many relationships.

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