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What isn't wrong with guys?
Being a 48 year old woman with years of experience in the love/lust department it is very difficult to generalize "guys". I guess if I had to wrap it all up in one term it would be "maturation" or the lack thereof.
During my late teens and adult years I found that guys were so immature. I became accustomed to the usual "let me see your tits" and "I got condoms, wanna screw?". Their preoccupation with sex was quite normal as far as society was concerned. Given nature's cruel joke of guys going through their sexual prime early and girls going through theirs later, I had only one choice and that was to get married and have children. As I was busting my ass to be the best wife and mother possible, my husband busted his ass objectifying women in every way possible. Ogling women in public and jerking off to Playboy and Hustler. No, I didn't know about the pornography until later but I did know that somehow I had been forgotten and ignored. After 13 years of being married to this man I realized that I grew and he didn't. And, to this day, he still talks and gets excited about the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue and the football cheerleaders. He's 50 freaking years old! Lack of maturation.

I never remarried, my children are grown and I've had several relationships in the interim. The one thing in common with all these guys seemed to be somewhat of a basic survival tool to them. They had a constant need to ogle women in public, go online to view the latest Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition, check the new updated pictures of cheerleaders and save the best for last at 2 a.m., 4 a.m., 6 a.m. ... all the free pornography the internet has to offer.
Yes people, I am tired. I am tired of the men out there on the dating sites. Tired of their B.S. about looking for that "special someone". Tired of meeting men who are so sexually dysfunctional because they have burned into their brains images of thousands of nude women and some of the most vial images made. I'm tired of all the crap that they want to do to me or me do to them because they saw it done in porn. I'm tired of their "little boy" minds.
I'm almost 50 years old! I like to have fun and I can do it without getting shit-faced. I'm healthy and happy and I love sex! No, I don't want to have cyber sex with you! No, I don't want to have phone sex with you! No, I won't send you naked pictures! No, I don't want to know the size of your penis! And NO, I will not lay in bed at night while you're

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