by Anna Johnson

Created on: June 01, 2008   Last Updated: November 21, 2010

As a heterosexual looking at the whole bisexual concept please educate me on this.
I do not have a problem with folk's sexual preference or anything like that.
But I truly believe at some point in this person's life they will eventually fall for someone right? So who they fall for will this be the final answer to the question of sexual orientation. Being a decisive person myself, I just find it hard to believe that a person does not like one more then the other.

When you have a strong attraction to something you mean at some point a choice is not made. Bottom line I believe to a heterosexual person we consider bisexuals to be homosexuals. We do not get to choose both on our end you are either heterosexual or you are not. Why does this issue have to be so complex with black and white and shades of grey? Simply be honest what gratifies you in the bedroom and do not lie.

All of us can look back on an encounter that sticks out in your mind more then any other.
Seeing that person's face so clearly in your mind and remember every single touch given.
Now after you have ear marked the event and the person see there face. Well who is it and is it a man or a women and I think then you know what you truly like.

The problem I have with bisexuality is that it is more secretive people do not come out.
I find them to be more dishonest with heterosexuals about there preferences.
How many people actually tell both there partners I like both sexes honestly.
If it is a secret from both of your partners then what does that really say about what you are doing to the people involved. This issue runs deeper then just choosing to be with both sexes are you also choosing for the other parties involved.

On this issue for me, I guess there is just no grey in the middle. Either you have an attraction to be with the same sex or you do not. Now if both parties are aware of what you are doing then does this make you guys sort of like swingers. This issue always confuses the heck out of me. But more then anything in the world I would just like someone to honestly explain why do you get to straddle the fence.

Why cannot there be a choice in what you really want to do with your sexuality.
Then I can even take it a step further if you have children where does that leave them if they find out. Does this issue also confuse things for them as to what is going on around them? Decide and keep the body count down to who you hurt in this confusion until you yourself can figure it out.

I see this whole issue like this when I buy a house I do not get to say oh never mind I will take the other one over there. I have to make a decision on what I want and close the deal or lose out all together. That is how I see issues like this choose either one side or the other or you could potentially miss the right person for you. Now it is truly up to you who are more important but I would always choose what is right for all parties involved.

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