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I could ask the same question; what is wrong with guys? Maybe it's a question that never can be answered; I too have tried to figure it out for a long time. As soon as they think that they have you, they change, the "honeymoon period is over and the leave us wondering what is going on, wondering if this is it, or they leave us sitting here waiting for them to get home, and I know we say we won't wait but we always do.

Guys are not built like women, they don't have the same emotions or mind set. I always said that guys are only good for one thing and even that's debatable. My soon to be ex husband has issues, people ask me all that time what's the matter with him. I cannot reply because honestly even though I have asked and he's in denial and says nothing is wrong I am left unsatisfied with the outcome.
Lets use him as an example; We have a four year old daughter together, he hardly ever sees her, and when he does he thinks she is some kind of trophy child, shows her off or pays attention to her when he knows people are looking, he walked away leaving her on a ride in a mall, and went into another store. (luckily I saw the whole thing and ran back to her) What is wrong with him? I can't answer that. My ex boyfriend for years would argue with me about the same issues and it was o.k. for him to go out but not me, he'd expected me to be at home so he could come over with his son, but when I was sitting here with my daughter he was a no show, what is wrong with him?
I used to ask my friends the same question about their boyfriends, why do men act this way and why can't we get a straight answer, it's like we are talking a foreign language here. Same goes for men they can ask the same about us women, what is wrong with us, and when we tell them they misunderstand or misinterpret us and make up their own answers. What is wrong with guys is a question that continues to fester it is unknown a mystery it seems unless us women could get inside their heads.
A man cheats on his wife, she cooks, cleans, and does whatever he wants, yet he still cheats, what is the matter with this guy? Men blame us for their problems and we do the same, we speak a different language us woman, we think; they don't. Guys tend not to know what they have/had till it's gone. I know some women are just as bad but this article is based on what is wrong with the male species, as I am sure men often ask what is wrong with us women, we are more than happy to explain it to them as we are a bit more complex. Men are men, head strung and at times stupid. They just don't have a clue, so if you are a man reading this please give us women a sense of understanding what is wrong with yous?!

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