by Jeremy Holcombe

Created on: May 28, 2008

Raising children with special needs can be very challenging to even the most dedicated parents. Depending on the diagnosis and the severity of the child's behavior, day to day activities can be almost impossible. Things as simple as conversation or getting dressed can be exhausting daily chores, not only for the child but for the parent as well. Growing up is already tough enough for a child. Add a disability and it can be an extremely rough road. While there is no doubt having a child with special needs requires more patience and understanding then usual, there are several resources parents can use to help their child along.

First and foremost you will want to get your child diagnosed as early as possible. If your child is presenting any kinds of unusual symptoms get them in to see someone. While the DOE (Department of Education) will not provide support until the age of three, the DOH (Department of Health) will. There are numerous programs out there for young children called 0-3 programs. These programs are geared toward very young children. Some are better then others so do your research, but programs like this are important for the future of your child. The sooner you establish diagnosis, the easier it will be to understand what kind of support your child will need down the road. Early intervention will also go a long way when you are fighting the DOE to get the support your child needs.

Secondly, when it is time for your child to enter school you want to be able to procure the right services for them. Depending on the focal point of your child's impairment, you want to get them in the setting that will be most optimal for their learning. Your child may have an easier time in a FSC (fully self contained) classroom where the curriculum is geared more to his/her speed and ability. On the other hand your child might benefit more in a regular education classroom, while only going to a special education classroom for certain subjects, like Math or Language Arts. There are different services that you may procure for your child but you will have to fight for them, so know your rights as a parent and get early intervention. Don't let the DOE tell you that your child does not qualify for a service when they do. Two little words will almost always get your child the services they require. Those two words are DUE PROCESS. Due process basically means you are going to sue the DOE for services they are unwilling to provide. Since they do not want to spend money on court fees or fight a battle they can't win, this should secure the services you are asking for.

Last but not least take a look at outside programs that are offered around your area. Most regular education after school programs consist of homework, and maybe some type of interaction with peers. You will want to find something more structured that involves plenty of peer interaction. The best programs are the ones that incorporate typical kids with special needs kids. This gives the special needs kids a chance to see other points of view from other kids around them. It also forces them out of their own little world and brings them into the real world. There are a few "social groups" out there that focus entirely on social interaction, which more often then not is the main obstacle in your child's life. Involving them in other activities with other kids is very important in their growth. Other programs such as Special Olympics are also great ways to get your child out of the house to make new friends. Remember, as a parent, the more you know, the better off you will be in the long run. While it may be hard, on both you and your child at first, they will thank you in the long run.

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