by Clarice Jones

Created on: May 19, 2008

What is appealing sexually in a man varies for various women. Of course, there are those common threads of attraction, that most women would agree upon. For instance, a man with a Grecian statuesque physique, wearing an expensive Italian suit, smelling of amber, whose face is as soft as a baby's bottom has got to get any woman raring to go. Unfortunately, these gods of good looks and style are few and far between, but thankfully there are other attributes and assets that men can encompass that are sure to obtain the attraction and admiration of the opposite sex.

For yours truly, there are several simple things that I look for in the male species in order to elevate me to that state of sexual yearning. Let me preface these details of desire, that I am about to describe, by stating- that of course there is more to appearance that matters when determining if someone is sexy, like confidence and composure, but for this specific piece I am going to keep it fun and frisky and illustrate only the superficial and surface specifics that "get me going". Some of you reading and critiquing may think that my taste is a tad twisted, but to each their own- correct? For me these are the bee's knee when it comes to what arouses me.

First and foremost, the hands of a man are an automatic turn on or turn off. There is something about a pair of masculine hands that is so very sexy to me. I love a large palm with solid, strong, yet soft, fingers. Holding one of these handsome hands can completely warm the wanting within me. To me, a man's hands hold (literally) the key to my desire. Hands caress, comfort, and conjoin two beings, and any man I am with needs to have the loveliest of hands in order to obtain possibility of my love.

Secondly, salt and pepper hair can most definitely spice up my sexual craving. Yummy! This combo of color is, to me, a reflection of masculinity and maturity. I can just imagine a man clean and combed, with perhaps the slight stubble of S & P on his face, reading the newspaper while I sit and stare at his sexy coif. Sounds silly, perhaps, but to me this is the epitome of what is sexually striking.

Lastly, and still on the hair topic, a man with ample body hair is to me such a sign of virility and manliness. Now, I am not talking about gorilla fur on a back or a thick coated chest, but I would much more prefer and slightly hairy chest than a smooth boy like one. And when it comes to the forearms of a man, I prefer to that his arms have more hair than my own, and of course, same goes for his legs.

So, simply stated, this is what is sexually enticing to this female. Again, I put much importance on other interior qualities when it comes to a mate, and mating, but for this playful piece I intended to put down what physically makes me want to put out.

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