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How to tell if someone is lying to you

by Gary Zalben

Created on: May 17, 2008

How To Immediately Spot A Liar

The mundane way of spotting a liar is through the verbal signs of deception and the reading of body language. Those who are called experts reveal some of their secrets on how to look and listen for a lie. For example there are many ways people divulge their lies. First is learning what to listen for. When someone is trying to pull the wool over your eyes, they may stammer and insert funny non-words to fill the gaps in their speech using certain vowels like uh or oh. They may often stammer or clear their voice asking you to please repeat that. And of course you must know the why do people lie? These signs should be important to the average person, but the transcendental way of learning the truth is never wrong.

The Inner Circle. In this segment, I am addressing only those of you which I consider to be in the inner circle. Spiritual masters tell us that there are two kinds of people in the world, those who meditate and seek a higher state of consciousnesses and those who do not. If you do not you will never be satisfied with the world, impossible. But among those who seek there are two kinds of people, those in the inner and those in the outer circle. Those in the inner circle are steadfast and constantly trying week after week, month after month, year after year to discipline themselves and expand their minds and consciousness.

How would a sage or a master or someone advanced in the inner circle perceive the truth in an individual? This is what they would tell you, "your speech is a open index to the contents of your heart and reverberations of the hearts vibrations echo into the form of speech." No matter how you dress up and polish an individuals speech, or refine his language, his voice will resonate the inner inclinations residing in his heart. The vibrations and tone of his voice is the reflection of his hearts experience. An evil man may impersonate the tone of voice of a virtuous person, but the wickedness in his heart will surely echo in his deceiving voice. Within the vibration and tone of a persons voice one can recognize from its harshness or mildness the hidden nature and feeling of one's heart. People that have good thoughts and who are adapted in doing good actions automatically store good habits in their heart, and their actions and speech reflect that kindness. A wicked person who does evil actions, produces wicked habits and a taste for sin in his heart and when he acts or talks, wickedness is spoken within. The

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