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The basics of conflict management

by Leigh Goessl

Conflict occurs when two or more individuals have a fundamental disagreement about values, opinions or points of view. When people interact closely with one another on a regular basis, it is inevitable that at some point a level of conflict will emerge.

When conflict occurs in the workplace it can result in a lot of distress if the issues are not resolved. However, in the organizational setting it is important to realize conflict is to be expected and to understand all disagreements are not necessarily a bad thing. Often many innovative ideas and broadening of minds are born from the seeds of conflict; this can be very enriching in the long term. The conflict might even potentially end up adding value to your organization because of any positive changes which may occur in the resolution process.

What's key for managing conflict in the workplace is to build a proverbial toolbox and fill it with techniques (tools) to use when clashes occur. Regardless of who is involved in the conflict, it will need to be dealt with and resolved in order for everyone to be able to move forward and remain focused on the organization's mission. If you are equipped with the right tools it is easier to manage conflict when it does happen (and rest assured at some point it will).

What are some ways you can effectively manage conflict in the workplace?

*Communication

Communication is one of the most important attributes in an organization. Workplaces which are sorely lacking in this area are usually peppered with conflict across the company. By maintaining strong and open communication, you can successfully use it to aid in managing conflict because the avenue to talk to each other in order to be able to resolve differences is already established.

*Training

As a leader, it is a good idea to develop training for management and employees to participate in which address problems in the workplace. Not only will this identify key issues, but also can offer strategies on how to deal with conflict. If you are an employee, it's a good idea to take advantage of this opportunity if it is offered.

Training which helps you learn how to manage conflict can really reduce the chances of any differences of opinion spiraling out of control. Learning techniques on how to cope and deal with divergence comes a long way when a situation arises.

*Build Relationships and Collaborate

Establishing bonds with your colleagues is a good way to assist in managing conflict because it will be easier to communicate and discuss any disputes which arise. If management and employees are able to effectively talk to each other and feel comfortable doing so, there will be less hesitation to address issues.

When differences aren't addressed, the conflict typically escalates and this may heighten a situation which may have been resolved by a simple discussion. Encouraging a collaborative and team environment is a positive approach which benefits everyone involved and increases a level of cohesiveness which tends to reduce ongoing conflict.

*Hold Regular Meetings

Organizational meetings are a great way to keep the lines of communication open. It also allows an environment where team members can have a platform to feel free to discuss any concerns, problems or offer suggestions of improvement. If a conflicting issue is present, a meeting is a good opportunity to discover the root of the problem.

*Offer Suggestions and Feedback

If you are a leader, it is a good idea to nurture an environment where suggestions and feedback are the norm. Be open with feedback so employees know how they are doing, offer support and helpful suggestions to empower employees in their jobs. Employees in return will feel encouraged to speak up if an issue warrants resolution and will not be left in limbo wondering if they are performing well when a conflict arises.

*Compromise

Compromise is a key component of conflict management and resolution. Since opinions and viewpoints are mostly subjective, when conflict arises, often there is no wrong or right side of a conflict. A good approach to managing conflict is to look for a compromising solution.

Allowing room for compromise gives everyone to have an influence in the solution and this decreases the chance of the disagreement escalating to high levels of conflict. When the disagreeing parties are given a choice of compromise, this can effectively resolve the problem and expand viewpoints which lead to diversified ideas and approaches to processes.

Conflict is not necessarily a negative occurrence in the workplace, but it is vital to have the right tools to fix persistent problems. This is vital to effectively deal with conflict and reach a solution when it does happen. Conflict management is not as daunting as it initially sounds, and it can be viewed as somewhat as an art form because it sometimes takes a bit of skill and practice.

When managing conflict, try to hone in on your interpersonal skills with emphasis on communication. Conflicts which are ignored and left to fester will grow into problematic issues, but conflicts which are met head-on are usually able to reach a successful resolution.

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