by Madison Starr

Created on: May 12, 2008

Are losing manners an inevitable side effect of our busy world? Is our lack of manners attributed to some sort of rebellion or is it merely laziness combined with lack of guidance and discipline? Do we now simply feel entitled to anything we want without the hassle of being polite? Sadly, it seems we are closer than ever to this way of life.

Today, manners seem to be getting harder to find. They are quickly becoming outdated as humankind continues to lean toward slothfulness, ignorance, and selfish abandon. Lately, I've noticed a significant decrease in the amount of "please" and thank you" that I've heard from my peers. Likewise, opening doors for others or keeping elbows off the table is a rare sight as well.

The days of proper etiquette and good manners are quickly fading into the shadows, along with a general respect for others. The media feeds off the vulgarity of certain individuals and promotes uncouth behavior. What we see others do, we deem acceptable for ourselves.

Lately, the human race seems to be on a collision course with some sort of evolutionary regression. We may be advancing in technology, but as far as proper etiquette goes, we are beginning to edge more toward primal urges than sophisticated grace. Will we continue to slide downhill?

It seems we are more concerned with advancements in science, computers, and weaponry than we are in human behavior. Is it not in our best interest to become better as human beings instead of besting each other with inventions and annual salaries? Is loss of manners the first step in a gradual decline of social evolution?

Perhaps it is time for each individual to sit down for a personal evaluation. Evaluate your goals and plans for reaching them. Think about the level of respect you have and show toward others. Do you interrupt others during conversation? Are you reasonable and justifiable in your arguments or do you take cheap shots at someone or an issue to win? If you see someone in need of assistance, do you stop to help or walk on by?

Everyone's manner can be improved. Acknowledge your bad habits and work to conquer them. Whether we deny it or accept it, we all have them. Don't chew with your mouth open. It is amazing to notice how many people do this. Don't belch in public or pick your nose. Don't carry on a cell phone conversation while at a restaurant, library, bank, or any other place of business. It displays bad manners and is rude to the individuals around you.

In today's age, it is common for many people

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