Loneliness... what we in reality connote by loneliness? Being alone? Being alone in a jungle? Being alone in a relationship? Being alone in a creature battle? Being alone in a rivalry? Being alone in receipt of the love? Being alone in a reflection? Being alone in meditation? Being alone in office atmosphere? Some of these? All? None of these? Let's explore
We are in a continued existence contest. Continued existence contest, as we know, depends on every other person's actions, every situation's reflections. It is innate that we are bonded with other person's planet in one or many ways. Suddenly, as we begin to sense that no one stands next to us, we are alone and we are completely alone there the panic comes, the panic that creates ambiguity about our continued existence capabilities. The panic of loneliness is the primary image we could notice and feel.

The panic of loneliness little by little dries with time as we initiate to craft a world' inside us. A world that represents a world' in us as we move wherever, as we think whatever or in as we do whatever. We start to look at the panic of loneliness as a precious gift since it brings the secret of how to position our self on our individual legs. Our individual world of thinking starts to characterize the outcome for life.

Loneliness is a place where we can reflect our thoughts frequently. Since the possibility of outside or outsider's thoughts amalgamation with our own thoughts becomes almost impossible, we achieve a state where every micro second feel of our thought spree can be felt within us, can be scanned, can be redrafted and can be directed towards the outcome what we wish for. This is a state of trance where one can re-examine the thoughts at any time since he has all the time and freedom in the world of loneliness.

Loneliness is a state of rich' mind. It transports the fit side of the mind to others. One of my friends was having lot of economic tensions in his business and personal life. He just requested his senior authorities for a couple of days break. He booked a resort in a fresh place and stayed there alone for two days. He just enjoyed the rich' time of his mind inside the room entirely and came back to the standard world. Within six months he challenged all the difficulties thrown at him by the nature and stood winning. I asked him about the secret of his success. He said Simple. I just stood in loneliness for a couple of days to just permit the habitual layer of thoughts to be settled down. Next the rich thoughts of my life arrived. One by one I found the solutions for difficulties. I applied them and found the outcome what I wanted. In fact I carried the same kind of loneliness wherever I went though I was speaking with everyone flawlessly. Loneliness, in reality, for me is a place where I can re-organize my thoughts in to a solution based string. I love it. Most importantly, people including my wife, have started to esteem the renovation in my thinking"

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