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Holidays: Skeletons in the closet

get her diploma she was caring their baby. So in retrospect the father of my children is now technically a child molester. I stayed with him through the DNA testing etc. I felt our son deserved to have both parents during his last year in school. For two weeks after he graduated my son worked on me everyday Telling me I deserved better. He would say I am all grown up now Mom leave the S.O.B. you deserve better.

When all this came out everyone of our friends was shocked. He couldn't believe I had actually left him. He stalked me for weeks then he started to make threats against my life. Told me to my face he had a contract put out on my life. I had him arrested after he threatened to kill me and they didn't do a thing to him.

One more highlight I forgot was about 5 yrs. prior to this whole mess a friend of ours got pregnant and said that my husband was the father. It's been about 14 yrs. since this incident and the woman still claims he fathered the kids ( she had twins ) One of which is ill and she needed health information on the Fathers family so she contacted me. ( can you believe the nerve? ) Anyway I sent my X an e-mail telling him what was up and I told him the time is now to fess up If he could be the father he best be man and admit it now before another whole mess is dumped on his children with me. He actually answered the email told me he wished sleeping dogs were left lie but I asked so he's answering. and said yes he could indeed be the father.

A few yrs. after we divorced he moved to Germany, married a German woman that has kids. He no longer contacts our children much. Claims they turned their backs on him.

It's been a long hard road for me. But I have come out on top. Our daughter gave us two beautiful grandchildren. He hasn't seen the youngest since she was 3 months old. She is now nine. I am on top now because I am the one watching them grow everyday they know who I am. Poppy G is just a picture to them.

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