Creative parenting may be one of the tools parents of ADHD children need. ADHD children have energy, are typically very bright. There may be days when a parent wants to pull their hair out, but if you get to know your child and what helps them the most, you can enjoy being the parent of ADHD children.
When doing homework, it is beneficial to have the child sit at the kitchen table. It helps to not have the TV on, and to play classical music. The lack of distraction and the calming music help to stay on task. It is necessary to keep an eye on progress being made. One may need to ask if they are finished, and to redirect their attention back to the homework. It is also helpful to have a time of activity before beginning homework, perhaps a run around the yard, or a fifteen minute bike ride to release some of the energy these incredible children have.
When working on a larger project, break it into smaller parts. Make a calendar with days that each part are to be completed by. This helps both the student and the parent to keep track of what is finished and what remains to be done. It also allows the student to feel a sense of accomplishment at each completion step.
Remember that typically these students are very bright and inquisitive. It is important to allow them to be creative. If they are interested in building things, there are a variety of toys that allow an appropriate outlet for them. If they are interested in sports, get them involved in local sports teams, the exercise will be good, it will allow them to build friendships and to succeed in another arena. If they are interested in art or dance, get them involved. These children need to find outlets for their creativity and for their inquisitiveness.
If your child is not doing well in school, they may be bored. Take them to the library and find books that they are interested in. They may be ahead of their grade level in reading, and be bored so they act out in the classroom. Do not be afraid to ask about having your child tested for gifted and talented programs. They may not fit the profile, but if you think it would benefit your child, do not take no for an answer.
Most importantly enjoy your child. Do not allow other peoples expectations for your child pressure you into making decisions that are not in the best interest of the child. If you feel medication is the best option, then go that route, if you feel it is not the best, then stand firm against it. You as the parent are your child's advocate. No one cares more about your child than you do. It is your right and your responsibility as a parent to seek all opportunities for you child.