by Teresa Altman

Created on: April 25, 2008

The Gift or the Giver?__

My friend loves his children so much you can almost see it bubble from his pores. For many years, that same love was reciprocated. I remember him proudly boasting that when he arrived home from work each day his children nearly tackled him at the door, covering him with hugs and kisses. What a wonderful feeling to receive someone's love that is so openly exuberant.

One day, he wanted to surprise his children with a gift to express his heartfelt devotion to their love. Not just any gift, it had to be a special one. They were so surprised the day he brought home a big screen television and he thoroughly enjoyed their excitement.

Soon afterward, he recognized a change in their behavior. They no longer greeted him at the door but instead, were perched in front of the television. When he called out to let them know he was home, the only response he ever received was a muffled "Hi Dad". He also began noticing that chores and homework were being neglected. He quickly grew angry and regretted his decision.

The object of his children's love had become the gift rather than the giver. When he could tolerate it no more he marched into the room, stood in front of the television and demanded his children's attention. Rules were then set and their relationship changed.

Sadly, the same is often true in a Christian's personal relationship with God. We become so distracted and involved with gifts that we fail to recognize and honor the giver. Do you hurry to greet your heavenly Father with gratitude and love? Or like many Christians today, do you fail to pause each morning to thank Him for life and rush through your day without even a thought to honor Him?

Like my friend, God is angered when we revere His gifts above Him. Wherever we spend our time and devotion will ultimately become our god. It's easy to be distracted by the bustle of life and overlook everything He has done for us. But we must remember that He is the giver of life and worthy of our praise and devotion. Please join me in making the conscious decision to turn our eyes back on the Father and give Him the first fruits of thanksgiving each morning and praise for every gift. Then, we will once again experience the bubbling love of a Father that adores His children.

You shall have no other gods before me. Exodus 20:3 (NKJV)

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