by Budianto Dermawan Ng

Created on: April 22, 2008   Last Updated: March 06, 2010

These are two things that will not be separated and have an equal needs in a man and a woman relationship. In past time, a man earned money to bring wealth in for the happiness in the family. While his wife was pouring her love to her family.

What is the description of money and love by emotionally in past generation?

Each gender was doing their homework. Father is the backbone, mother is a housewife. Together they are completing each ritual. They are in their own world which is suited the best to their nature.

A husband built the house for his family, a shelter and bring whatever is good from outside of the house's limit to give the benefits to his family. That's how a husband showed the love to his family. While his wife took the part of giving the color inside the house that his husband built. She poured the love inside the house's scope and made the family's aura is alive. A husband brought wealth from outside to preserve the endurance of the family, while his wife poured her love when her husband came home from work and her kids came home from school.

A husband was running in the whole role of his nature, the same with his wife. They never feel the floating of emotional hunger inside themselves because each of them could seek in each environment. They had those whole entirely device of enjoying the happiness and sharing out sadness in the right place. That's why they survived the relationship, because their emotional hunger was fully satisfied, either with happiness or sadness. Each of them is grabbing the right key to its own role.

Today is different...

The lifestyle of a family now is demanded both sides to share equally. The woman has a chance to seek the wealth like a man did, right now she can be a backbone to a family. But man is just a past man, he is still in his father nature.

Then no one gives the love in home anymore, the alive family's aura is fading. Now both sides is facing the floating emotional hunger. They shake into a chaos of what had been in a balance. Each other competes to gain their needs in the mixture chaos of nature's adjusting. They soon get trapped inside the chaos they made themselves, if only they don't shake it. But it's too late now, a glass of milk tainted by a dot of ink will be not drinkable anymore.

How to describe nowadays relationship for money and love, emotionally?

Both sides are stepping on the money and wealth field right now, the love is getting scarce and an expensive stuff in a family. The emotional is getting dehydrated quicker because no one is mastering the art of love. Their parents did not have the journal to fix for solution of this, because it's not their pattern.

Finally they do know what had happened with this generation. They also know why this generation is confused with the identity of money and love in a relationship. They know it clearly, they had given thousand of advices, but the kids still didn't understand it. At last, they surrender them to the faith, the kids will walk on their path now, alone, and learn from the result whatever the outcome is good or bad.

"Sometimes elder word should not be taken as a joke, their experiences was paid well and expensively by them to learn the meaning of Life and to be taught to their next generation."

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