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Relationships fail because the bond of husband and wife is lost. Many people can easily get a divorce in a heart beat and when push comes to shove they are taking the easiest way out. Instead of trying to work out the hard times in a relationship they give up on it and toss it away like an old rag. There are many reasons why a relationship fails some say it is finances while others say it is stress due to managing their children. Nobody keeps the marriage sacred anymore. The romance is gone from a relationship and eventually after being together for so long the marriage dies. Back in the olden days many people were against divorce they believed that marriage is sacred and they should do whatever it takes to keep it together. Some people get into the relationship for the wrong reasons and therefore it was doomed right from the beginning. A marriage or any relationship was founded and built around trust amongst two people and sometimes one partner makes the mistake of cheating or having an affair behind the other person's back. The one thing I know is that the values of a relationship are being taken for granted and therefore the marriage or relationship is taken for granted and everybody who is in that relationship.

We don't live in a perfect world and everyone is not perfect. We do make mistakes but the bottom line is that the biggest reason why a relationship fails is our own fault. What makes those silver and gold anniversaries are the opposite of what we are doing. People who have been together through out most of their lives learn to see past the minor flaws and savor the moments together. They don't take each other for granted and don't take the time together for granted either. If we can start appreciate the small things the other person is doing and not taken it for granted then maybe the relationship will have a chance. If a marriage is meaningful and strong then you should stick through rough spots and do your best to keep the marriage together. For example I have been married for five years in those five years we have hit a lot of rough areas. From miscarriages to losing jobs but I am still together with him because I know our marriage is strong. If the love is gone so is the faith and therefore the relationship fails as well.

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