by R.E. Hay

Created on: April 18, 2008   Last Updated: May 05, 2010

There are no real mistakes women can make in bed. There are only lessons to be learned. In the beginning you were told "go to school." Why? So you can get an education, then hopefully get into a great college, and then become a successful and productive citizen. So why not take the same approach in the bedroom? The only restrictions when it comes to the bedroom are the ones we place on ourselves.

So by reading this article, I must sincerely ask that you throw away every bit of structure you have handcuffed yourself to and open your mind beyond what is appropriate and what isn't. Sex is sometimes dirty. Sex is not always clean. It is not neat. It is not a routine or a chore such as doing the dishes or the laundry. Sex is one of the greatest pleasures a human can have; not to mention the divine closeness it can bring you with another human being. It is meant to be enjoyed and savored. Sometimes, it is better and more stress relieving than any spa day and it won't take all day. So what are the main lessons a woman should learn:

LOVE THE HUMAN FORM! Whether you prefer men, women, or both you should learn to love everything about their bodies and your own. By loving your own physical attributes and embracing them, it will show confidence. This does not mean you have to love it all, but do love the things that are good. Stand in the mirror one time and look at your body naked. We all hate doing this because we only see our flaws. However, look not at your flaws but for your good attributes. See what is sexy in the mirror. Do not say "nothing is sexy" because you are just wrong. We all have attributes and body parts that are sexy. I, for instance, hate my stomach, but I love my eyes, legs, and lips. They are my best qualities. GO AND FIND YOURS! After you find those wonderful great sculptures of art, then you can start relying on those qualities in the bedroom. Remember these beautiful qualities and use them to your full advantage. You can show them off with lingerie or makeup. Enhance them so you feel sexy! This will make you more confident in the most intimate of situations.

Next find the best in your partner's body. Even if it is in the naughtiest of places. Because not all men look like David Beckham, but there are still many beautiful attributes in millions of other men. Find out what features of theirs turn you on and make you believe they are one in a million. When it comes time to enter the bedroom, TELL THEM! It shows a certain admiration for just them, and

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