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allow your guilt for having to go to work provoke you into upsetting your child in such a manner. Of course they love you! Of course they will be happy when the day is done and they get to go home with you!

Most daycares will be happy to give you an update on how your child is doing. All you need to do is call, or ask them to call you at a specific time during the day when you are available. If your child is suffering from separation anxiety, it could be more upsetting to them if you ask to speak to them while making such a call. Hearing your voice will only cause them to want you to be there in person. Give them time to adjust to their surroundings, the new people, and the new experiences.

Talk to your child about things they did during the day. Ask them about what they learned. Most daycares have some form of communication to let you the daily schedule. Look it over, prompt your child on specifics. "What did you do today?" is far too broad of a question for them. Try, "Did you make an art project?" or "What toys did you play with?" Let them know you are interested in what they have done. Promote that you are happy they are learning and having fun. Give them to "OK" to have a good time, even without you there.

If it's at all possible, get to know the other parents at the center. Set up play dates with other kids in your child's class. This will help them to form bonds and friendships, giving them something to look forward to.

Separation anxiety is a normal, healthy part of development. It can be worked past, minimized, and eventually eliminated. Be patient, be understanding, and work with your child's teacher to come up with solutions that will best suit your child's individual needs.

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