by J. Farnum

Created on: April 16, 2008

Each generation faces insurmountable odds as society fast pace increases. It becomes harder to promote healthy family environments as the cost of living increases but wages remain the same. Two parent households are rare today with divorce rates soaring. Growing a family is one that cannot be instantaneous. The growth of a family takes time and it is valuable.

Put aside the makeup of typical family mom, dad, two children and dog; rather focus on the fundamental soundness of the members of the family. A single parent household can produce able bodied, surefooted offspring if there is consistency and discipline. Family that structured around communication will grow citizens who are great communicators. Mealtimes should be times for redefining family and developing those need communication skills. Listening ears, open minds and vocalization of what the day shaped up to be goes a long way. Genuine concern about how life is developing day-to-day is the gateway to being compassionate. Do not focus on the bad report from school, tomorrow is another opportunity to try again. Find out what is needed to make the better day happen.

It takes patience to develop and grow a family. Things do not change overnight. If they did we couldn't handle it. Redefining the dynamics of the family today will take changing the need for instant gratification and spontaneous success. Work toward building mutual respect and finding the hero in the home instead of worrying about the small issues. The light-heart moments are to be treasured because the weight of society is waiting to weigh you down.

Essentially the definition of family is formulated in the deeds not the physical presence of both parents. The defining moments are determined by beating the odds and standing the test of individual development. Unity of family is vital but even more vital is allowance for difference and individuality. Support in the family is a key ingredient to growth of the family. Support each with love, respect and admiration. Do not allow fears overshadow faith. Family is defined as it always has been through togetherness. Invest the time is growing your family.

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