How to understand different kinds of love

 

Love has many faces


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There are different kinds of love. When we look at the word love in terms of having many different faces, we begin to realise its multiplicity, diversity and complexity. We also become aware that love is somewhat of a mystery. Can we ever really understand all of the different faces of love? Each one presents a mystery of its own. Yes, love of any kind invariably presents a mysterious realm, one to be explored further by anyone with the courage to take on a challenge. Whether love is divine love or human love, or the love of someone or something, love is still love.

Instructions
Step 1
Explore the different realms of love

Begin with an open mind, as you accept the challenge to explore the different kinds of love. Start with the concept of romantic love where two people meet and gradually, or suddenly, fall in love. Romantic love has a high degree of passion, as the two people come to know each other and become one. There is culmination in a marital relationship and conjugal love. In a true romantic love relationship, the passion and romance can continue for many years.


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Step 2
Address the different aspects of love in life

Different kinds of love affect us in different ways. What is the most important of all is the reality that they do affect us. Parental love is another kind of love that begins to surface, when a child is born to a couple. Maternal love enables the mother to carry an unborn child to full term and bring it to birth with joy and a sense of celebration, in spite of the pain of childbirth. Paternal love is the love of a father for his child.


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Step 3
Understand that love is always new

When we understand that love is always new and ever renewing, we begin to understand some of the basic features of the face of love. Familial love is manifest in the nurturing of a child or children, by parents and other family members, as an baby begins to grow and develop. When there is more than one child, the nurturing of the siblings includes teaching them to love one another. This is brotherly love or sisterly love.


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Step 4
Be prepared to let your horizons of love expand

Each horizon of love will expand. When we see a young child, we wonder which direction his or her multiplicity of pathways will lead. What does love hold for him or her? We cannot necessarily look into the future and find the answer, but we do know that there are other kinds of love this child will encounter in his or her lifetime. Initially, for him or her, it will be child's love directed towards the love of his or her mother, father and then others.

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Things Needed
A courageous spirit willing to explore the many different kinds of love
The presence of mind to know and understand the fact that love is real
Room in your heart to welcome love with its multiplicity, diversity and complexity
The emotional stability to love and win, or love and lose
Time to invest in a love relationship
Tips & Warnings   
Exploring different kinds of love takes courage.
Looking at the many faces of love may confuse, confound or amaze you.
Finding love with in its different manifestations is not for the weak of heart.
Prepare to be challenged by love.
Never stop looking for love.
Love will appear when you least expect it.
Do not let fear rule your love relationship.
Expect to have a gamut of different emotions depending upon the kind of love you are experiencing.
Know that you are in control unless you let love run wild.
Enjoy watching your love grow. It surely will.

The Carpenters - There's a kind of hush

(*) There's a kind of hush All over the world tonight All over the world You can hear the sound of lovers in love You know what I mean Just the two of us And nobody else in sight There's nobody else and I'm feelin good Just holding you tight (**) So listen very carefully Get closer now and you will see what I mean It isn't a dream The only sound that you will hear Is when I whisper in your ear I love you For ever and ever There's a kind of hush All over the world tonight All over the world People just like us are fallin' love Repeat (**) Repeat (*)

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Olivia Bredbenner
Jan 11, 12 at 09:51 PM
Great HTG Diane... well done , I especially liked listening to the Carpenters again. :)
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