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Created on: October 25, 2007 Last Updated: February 21, 2009
Divorce and loss of employment are two of the most often known causes for depression and it is no secret that money problems are at the root of most divorces. Therefore, it becomes quite easy to say money is linked to depression. Though money may not be the cause of all depression cases, it does factor in to a large portion of them.
Loss of employment, of course, causes loss of income and, with the lack of money for mortgage payments, can cause a person to lose their home. They often lose their self esteem even if able to hang on their home. It seems to impact men even more than women as they still tend to feel they are, or should be, the major bread winner. They often feel they are not able to live up to their responsibility for taking care of their family.
In some cases, one partner may take a second job in order to boost the household income in order to pay the bills. Though successful in meeting the monthly payments, one or both partners may become depressed at loss of time together.
Divorce is a major cause of depression and so many divorces come about because of marital problems rooted in money issues. The lack of money to have the things the couple was accustomed to before entering adulthood and marrying can drive a wedge between a young couple. Again, the male feels unable to provide for his wife and family. The female may feel the same way and bitter arguments ensue. An immature partner may blame the other for not providing the things they want or feel they need, even if their demands are totally ridiculous.
Marital conflicts also arise over how the couple handles their finances. One party may be very responsible and try to save money for their future, while the other is still emotionally immature and spends too much money, causing arguments. One may even slip behind the other's back and spend the couple into debt beyond their means to pay and destroy the couple's credit record.
Arguments occur between couples when they do not work together as a team in their marriage and go by the "this is my money, that's your money" philosophy. Once a couple begins to argue over money and become discontented with their partners, arguments spill over into other areas of their marriage. The children, the other spouse's family, and a variety of other issues become points of arguments. Eventually the marriage will fall victim to divorce. Whatever caused the final deathblow to the marriage, money was usually at the root of the problem in the beginning.
Bankruptcy, even due to uncontrollable circumstances such as a major health crisis or sudden disability, causes severe depression in most people. Bankruptcy affects singles as well as married couples. For the person who has to file bankruptcy that has been an honest individual and always paid their bills, the act of having to file deals a hard blow to their self esteem. They feel like a failure and feel publicly humiliated. They often feel like they have lost their identity. Those feelings, coupled with loss of a home, vehicle, or other possessions spin the person into a bout of major depression.
Even depression an otherwise happy person experiences only during the holidays is often related to lack of money to purchase those they love the items they wish they could. Though that sounds like something one should just pass off and hope everyone understands, for many it is not so easy to overcome those feelings. They begin to feel depressed as early as October, and the depression lasts until January or beyond. Those prone to that type of depression often repeat the cycle every year.
We, unfortunately, live in a world where so much revolves around money it seems inevitable for money to be an underlying cause in many cases of depression.
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Created on: March 05, 2008
Is money (or the lack of it) invariably linked with depression? Well, although money issues can certainly be a factor when a person becomes depressed, I would argue that this is not always the case, and that depression can often have little or nothing to do with money - or its absence.
First, there's a strong link between major or clinical depression and heredity. Depression runs in families, as does bipolar disorder, so if your parents had a history of clinical depression, chances are that you (whether you are a princess or a pauper) will have inherited a vulnerability to that condition. It's simply a possibility, not a certainty, and it's to do with your genes and not the condition of your wallet.
This leaves the range of mild to acute depression that most people experience from time to time but is not devastating enough, normally, to warrant medical attention. You probably know what I'm talking about, feelings ranging from a mild case of the "blues" right up to persistent sadness, muffled anger or a pervasive sense that life has no meaning.
It's true that difficulties with money can lead to depression. A survey in the UK by
the National Depression Campaign found that 88% of people rated money problems as a likely cause, 1% more than the number of people that linked depression to a death or illness in the family. And that was back in 1999. With the credit crunch and spiralling personal debt often in the news in recent times, I would not be surprised to find this percentage even higher now. It's no wonder that for many people finances seem to be inextricably linked to anxiety and gloom.
And yet... Even without studies and surveys, common sense tells us that money troubles are not the only reason why people get depressed. Despondency often sets in when we feel helpless and unable to avoid the setbacks life sends us. Thus a bullied schoolchild, a harassed employee, a convict in an overcrowded gaol, a bereaved husband or wife and a long-term invalid all may well suffer depression as a result of adverse life conditions.
Each of them might succumb to despair and helplessness, but it would have little or nothing to do with the state of his or her bank balance, and a lot more to do with relationships and physical circumstances.
So much, then, for depression caused by not having enough money. Could it be that having too much of it is also a problem?
The Happy Planet Index, introduced in 2006 by the New Economics Foundation, makes for some interesting (if controversial) reading. Basically, it is a ranking of the world's nations, based on happiness rather than GDP, and, for what it's worth, some of the world's poorer countries have high scores the top three are Vanuatu, Columbia and Costa Rica - while the wealthiest nations such as Japan and the US come in at 95 and 150, respectively. While these scores are not purely measurements of people's levels of happiness, as they are partly based on environmentalists' ideas of sustainability, they are nevertheless intriguing.
Is it possible, then, that being rich, or indeed living in a rich country, can tend to make you depressed?
There is some truth in that. Economist Richard Easterlin proposed in 1974 that once people have attained a certain level of financial security, their happiness does not grow in proportion to any future increases in wealth. In other words, if I have one loaf of bread I am a lot happier than if I had none at all, but if I become richer and can afford to buy two, three or four loaves, there is no great gain in happiness with each addition.
The pleasures of the consumer society also seem to be fleeting. "Hedonic adaptation" sets in, which means that the thrill of acquiring a new widescreen TV, iPod or Mercedes-Benz diminishes swiftly, as the object of desire becomes merely another thing to be stored, insured and worried about. It can make us happy only for a brief moment, and after that, we always need to strive for the next acquisition, the next temporary pleasure.
This might be why "retail therapy" only works for a while. The excitement of buying something new gives way to the muted pleasure of ownership, then perhaps to ennui and depression once more, paving the way for another repeat of the cycle.
But is the root cause of this problem money, or is it the absence of something else?
It seems to me that we are happiest when we have a purpose in life, and there are quite a few attributes and activities that can help us keep us engaged and have a meaningful existence. Positive psychologist Martin Seligman has broadly identified some of these, including being sociable, married, self-disciplined and having religious convictions. From personal experience, I have also found that creative tasks, and any absorbing activity be it gardening, writing, playing tennis, doing volunteer work - that generates what is now called "flow", can add meaning and purpose to my life.
I suggest that it is not so much that affluence is the cause of depression, but that we have a need for meaning in our lives that money simply cannot, by its very nature, fulfil entirely. Like the man in the story, who searched for his keys under the bright streetlamp, rather than in his dark house where he had lost them, we are simply looking in the wrong place.
(I would add that being an entrepreneur and building a business are meaningful activities in themselves, which can bestow an authentic sense of purpose. The hunger to fill an inner void by acquiring money and material possessions is not the same thing, in my opinion.)
So, back to the question as to whether money and depression are invariably linked, I would answer that they are not. Our genes may give us (just) a tendency to clinical depression, no matter if we are rich or poor. Lack of money might help to make us depressed, but then so might a lot of other things, such as bad relationships or failing health.
Lastly, those of us who live in affluent societies have a choice, either to remain on the hedonic treadmill and become disappointed and depressed when money and consumer goods do not deliver all they promised or to look within ourselves, find out what fires us up and fills us with purpose, and forge a meaningful life for ourselves.
That's the thought I would like to leave you with. When we are depressed, life seems hopeless and without meaning, but once we make a decision to find a purpose, a reason to go on living, things change. Something shifts within us, and the grey hand of depression begins to loosen its hold.
And that would seem to be true, whether we are rich, poor, or somewhere in between.
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