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Is today's youth lacking compassion?

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Yes

by Wayne Leon Learmond

Created on: February 08, 2012   Last Updated: February 09, 2012

The lack of compassion within today’s youth is there for all to see. As society progresses year by year through its technological advances, it seems that the lack of common decency and manners decreases. As the gap between the rich and poor continues to grow, so too does the lack of respect of today’s youth.

The summer riots within the United Kingdom in 2011, summed this up perfectly. The vast majority of those who were involved in the riots were pre- teens and teenagers, all technologically-savvy. These were the ones that used technology - mobile/cell phones to their advantage, to cause havoc throughout the major cities of the United Kingdom. Indeed, the vast majority of those young people didn’t know why they where rioting - other than there was nothing to do, and a chronic lack of places to go for the youth.

However, despite the lack of places to go and things to do, this still does not excuse the lack of compassion within today’s youth. There are many reasons for this, one major reason being that there are children who do not fear ‘authority’ anymore. Adults are frightened to chastise their children now, for fear of being prosecuted by the authorities.

The law has swung too far toward the child, and away from the parents. The result of this is that this has stripped parents of their authority over their children.  There are many parents who are now terrified of showing any kind of discipline toward their children. The lack of fear for authority figures, such as parents, teachers, or the police is something that has crept into society as the years have passed by.

This is because the law of 'authority' has slowly been stripped away from parents and teachers. This has resulted in a lack of moral authority with parents and teachers fearing prosecution if they even lifted a finger against their offspring or pupil. This does not mean that it was right to hit children in the past, for misdemeanours. However, what is meant is that in the past especially, before the authority to chastise children was taken away from parents and teachers, there was a lot more respect.

One could say that during the Victorian age, children were told that they should speak when spoken to. Although there were gangs of youths even then, they still held a fear for authority figures. This was simply because the fear of spending a lifetime sentence for the most menial of crimes - such as stealing a piece of fruit, was very real indeed. Prison or the workhouse, both were as bad as each other and they were the detriments that made youngsters of that age respect and fear authority. However, move forward over two hundred years and today’s youth has a complete lack of compassion, and a viciousness to match.

Of course not all youths are like the ones mentioned above. However, it has to be said that people coming upon gangs of youths on the street, are very wary indeed. Feral youths who do not follow the law of the land but rather, their own agendas, roam the inner cities with a nonchalance and arrogance, knowing that the law really cannot touch them. Today's generation of youth has become the 'something for nothing' generation. Dependant on welfare benefits, there are many of them that feel they owe society nothing and that society 'owes' them everything.

Drunken youths are a regular sight at night within major city centres, and parents don’t seem to care about where their children are, or what they are getting up too. The complete lack of love, care, and understanding that some parents have for their children - plus the result of divorces - can see children treated like objects instead of human beings.

The legacy of this is there for all to see, as those same children are left to their own devices. They themselves will hold a lack of compassion, respect and love for themselves, other people and society as a whole. To many older people, youths today lack basic human decency for themselves or others around them.

Their lack of compassion is such that it is almost as if they are automatons. Many of them show no feelings at all for the hurt they cause to others, and their lack of humanity is frightening. It is this lack of feeling, and a could-not-care-less attitude for all around them, that makes them so fearful to others. Dressing in black with their faces covered, by balaclavas, and carrying weapons such as guns and knives, one has to wonder just where we will be in the future? 

Indeed, they have become the legacy of what happens when authority is stripped away from parents and teachers. Also, when in some families themselves do not even care where their offspring are from day to day, night to night, then is there any hope at all for society in the future?


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No

by Dorothy Hoffman

Created on: October 30, 2010   Last Updated: October 31, 2010

American society seems to be growing meaner and less compassionate in the face of tough economic times. Focusing on our own selfish interests may seem logical when people are worried about being able to put food on the table and keep a roof over their family’s heads. But harsh times often bring out the best in a people, as they realize they’re all in the same boat.

In fact, during the Great Depression, worker solidarity strengthened, and our government created social safety nets to ensure children, the elderly and unemployed wouldn’t starve. Society grew more compassionate as the economy turned sour and millions of people sank into poverty.

It’s little wonder that young people today might lack compassion when they see so little of it in their nation’s leaders. Our politicians reward the ruthless billionaires whose unbridled greed brought down the global economy, while stripping away the few shreds of the New Deal safety nets that hadn’t been dismantled by previous administrations.

The youth of America aren’t stupid. They can see that the American Dream they’ve been promised is going to be out of reach for most of them. Students graduate from college with $100,000+ debts and few decent jobs available. With soaring unemployment, businesses still ship more jobs overseas, but their executives don’t cut back on their own exorbitant salaries and bonuses while demanding bigger tax breaks. The super-rich may be getting richer, but many young people who can’t find work are forced to move back with their parents, who may be struggling themselves to avoid foreclosure.

Young people today have few compassionate role models in their parents’ and grandparents’ generations. While North America and Europe are overwhelming responsible for global warming, it’s the developing nations of the southern hemisphere that are already paying the price. Climate scientists are warning that we’re fast approaching the “tipping point,” when it may be too late to stop the spiraling catastrophic effects of our irresponsible use of energy resources, yet our corporate and government leaders fail to take even minimal steps toward dealing with the problem.

Throughout Europe, as well as the U.S., governments are imposing draconian “austerity” measures on the poorest and most vulnerable people – they have plenty of money to bail out the Wall Street bandits and the global banks that profited from their crisis they created, but nothing for the millions of hard-working citizens who lost their pensions, jobs and homes.

Talk show hosts rant against the poor, foreigners, Muslims, gays, and “progressives.” To many people in positions of power and influence, compassion and tolerance seem to have become dirty words. So why should our young people care about anyone but themselves?

It’s easy for the younger generation to immerse itself in the frivolous distractions modern life provides – a celebrity-obsessed media, mind-numbing video games, an endless stream of “must have” electronic gadgets. Social networks like FaceBook and Twitter seem to encourage disengagement from the real world and meaningful human interactions.

But electronics and social networks are only tools. They can be used for good or bad, and many young people are using these tools to create new global communities and invent new kinds of social and political activism.

Let’s not write off the youth of today. We may not have left them much of a world, but they are our only future. We may find they have a bit more compassion than we had.

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