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Add to FavoritesI have owned many cats during my life most of which happened to be male. This was not intentional in any way, as I never chose the cats that became a part of my life because they always chose me. While I believe that females can be just as sweet as male cats, it is my experience that males are more extroverted and therefore friendly. You have to work much harder to gain the friendship of a female cat while males seem to enjoy their human counterparts presence much faster and easier.
I can only comment of what my experience has been involving the cats in my life, past and present. I currently have a number of cats in my life, some housecats, some strays and ferals. Out of all of these cats, there are approximately nine females and of these nine, I would consider only two to be friendly. The other seven could take human attention or leave it, either way they are happy. There are approximately ten males, seven of which I would consider extremely friendly and extroverted. Male cats seem to be very trusting, easy going and confident while female cats tend to be a bit high strung, anxious at times and weary of our intentions as humans.
While I love all my cats dearly both the males and females, I feel extra privileged each time one of the not so trusting females allows me into their inner circle, if only for a brief moment. One must wonder if the friendliness of male cats stems from their natural drive to procreate with as many females as possible. I know that sounds strange when humans are involved but male cats will wander miles in search of a female in heat while the females usually lay in waiting for the males to find them. It takes a great bit of confidence to venture out into other males territories, especially if the area is unfamiliar to the males. However they continue this practice in order to keep their breed line alive.
It is my experience that female cats are often more docile and good-natured while males can be rough and boisterous. Some of the personality and behavioral traits that our cats display are rooted in their lineage, which is many times of unknown origin. I guess it boils down to what you want from your cat, how you raise it if you have from kitten-hood, the temperaments of its parents and the disposition of its breed or breeds if it is a mixed breed. If you were to take a look at some of the behavioral characteristics are associated with the many different breeds of cats in existance today you may be suprised by how much they can actually vary. However, while genetics may play a part in the development of your cats temperament and disposition, you play a much larger part as a can is very receptive to their owners whether adopted as a kitten or as an adult.
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Female
Just as gender types differentiate in human form, so do male and female cats. I say this in confidence. I currently share my home with one male cat and two female cats and the differences are astronomical.
The queen of the felines is Patra. She came into our home almost ten years ago and had instantly taken up ownership. She was sweet, and gentle, and a bit of a prissy sort-of girl who liked, and still does, her privacy. On rare occasion, she'll pop out of her hiding place, wave a bushy tail, then disappear until next time like a caped crusader in the night. She likes to keep her feline counterparts curious; they can never be sure what personality she'll emerge with. The other two cats spread the way when she does finally surface, as noticeable respect brightens their eyes. She's the oldest and most dangerous; therefore, she has earned her position.
I can't deny that my male, Boots, cat has an earned a special place in my heart. I found him abandoned in my backyard when he was around six weeks old. When I reached down to pet him, and he drew blood, I should have suspected he was a stinker in the making but I forgave him. I couldn't resist his charm. He had the prettiest green eyes that melted my heart. It was a good thing he had me wrapped around his finger because we soon learned he was part cat and part evil spawn. Walking became hazardous. One never knew when a black flash of feline would dart out from the shadows and attack. Not so bad during the day, but at night, when your half asleep and feeling your way through the dark for the restroom, the last thing you want is a set of claws attached to your ankle. It wasn't so nice when he started eyeing Patra with a certain naughty gleam in his eye. We fixed his unruliness . . . literally. Ha-Ha. Poor guy. He walked into the vet's office full of mischief and spark. He came out the next morning not so certain where he belonged in the scheme of things. I guess that does happen to a cat that loses that part of his anatomy. He's now a hefty twenty-pounder that listens and obeys, for fear that he'll end up under a vet's scalpel again. He follows us everywhere, minus the claws in ankles.
Last, but definitely not least, is the youngest, Susi Q. She loves love. The kids can hold her, dress her in baby clothes, and feed her out of a bottle. But a word of advice, don't turn your back. Once she thinks you're not looking, the true Q comes alive. She's a jewel thief . . . and I'm not joking. We've learned, a pair of earrings on the table equals out to loot for one certain kitty. A shiny watch is catnip. She especially likes diamonds. And yes, my jewelry is under lock and key!
Sure, feline gender types differ, but it does seem that these furry creatures have their very own personality, no matter male or female. But, my female cats are certainly sweeter.
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