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| No | 47% | 583 votes | Total: 1239 votes | |
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Add to FavoritesWith the internet, access to pornography is easier then ever and its viewing has become common place. The fact that this question need even be asked is evidence of that. The fact that more people voted YES to this question is proof. I would be lying if I said I was not tempted by pornography, even as a married man, but the truth is, my love for my wife over powers my temptation. The idea that men should be allowed to watch porn with the approval of their wives is an insult to men and women.
For men it's as if we are so pathetic we cannot control ourselves. Is discipline completely lost? Where is self control? Are we not man enough to do the right thing even if it is more difficult? Is it impossible for a man to love his wife and her body more then those of others, even if he must train himself to do so? I know the excuses for why men should be allowed to watch pornography: because we are allegedly more sexually driven, because it can allegedly enhance our sex lives, because our wives allegedly do not fully satisfy us sexually. These arguments are pathetic. Want more sex from your wife? Get off your ass and do the dishes every once in a while. Want to enhance your sex life? Spend more time being romantic, read a book, or just practice. What happened to perusing your wife, wooing her, winning her over?
For women, the idea that you would have to tolerate a husband who views other women naked engaged in sexual activity for his own personal gratification is a step back to the days of polygamy and concubines. Allowing pornography in your home is allowing objectification of your sex, to be viewed as nothing more then a tool or piece of property. The excuse that justifies porn because, "At least he isn't having an actual affair", is nonsense. The fact of the matter is that your husband is viewing other women for his sexual pleasure and therefore has not forsaken all others and is not committed to you and only you. Any woman who knows she is more then an object should take a stand against a fool ridiculous enough to even suggest pornography be allowed.
How dare anyone make a commitment to love and cherish, until death do you part, forsaking all others, go back on this promise by watching pornography. It lowers you, and while in fact you think it may bring satisfaction, this is only short term because your sex life, real sex, as well as your marriage and the lessons you teach your children will suffer immensely.
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Yes, why not! We all know men like sex, in fact they are made for that! :That's a strong statement, I know that but men need sex and often ned variety. While it may sound socially improper for a man to stare at another woman in the presence of his wife, we all know it is inevitable. They will do it no matter how many restrictions you put on them. The harsher you get on them, more they get spoilt. That's the same as trying to discipline a teenager. They will begin chetaing, lying and end up feeling frustrated.
After all they are not cheating you. They still love their women, but cannot help looking at others too. And, that is natural. There's even a scientific evidence for that. What will you prefer, letting your husband get dishonest, lying to you and leave you suspicious or being in his arms, enjoying all the gross things in the most intimate times? By letting him enjoy porn and participating in that yourself, you will only make your relationship healthier and more truthful.
Let them loose! Let them indulge! So much that they eventually get tired of that sickening material and return to sanity. It will no longer be a problem then. It will be fun, and a truly stromg bond based on true love, understanding honesty and trust.
Who likes being restricted after all? And,. there's nothing wrong about that too, They are not out visiting a whore. They are just trying to enjoy a moment while being faithful to you, by being with you, only for you. Watching pron can also spice up your sex life immensely. This may sound so ethically wrong, but it is so practical. Frankly, how many times do we succeed in our efforts to stop our men in doing something like this? Man is a master of his own fate and is capable and mature enough to decide the right course of action. And, hence resorts to watch porn instead of picking up a one night stand and cheating their lady. Is watching porn then so unethical?
It is all about how you personally feel about it. And let your man feel about it. Do you want a frustrated man who does not get what he wants and seeks pleasure outside the relationship without telling you, or would you prefer trying it out yourself and ignite a longing passion in your existing relationship. The choice is yours!
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