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No
Created on: February 13, 2008 Last Updated: October 04, 2010
Aside from the theological and biological part of the debate is the idea that children are not cars, jeans, or breast implants. While consumers should be free to purchase things which appeal to their preferences and styles a child is not an accessory but a major responsibility. My fear is parents pick out gender and / or other factors and the child is born. Then one or both parents are dissatisfied with the result. After all, choosing gender and controlling other factors is not going to ensure the child will meet the expectations that such choosy parents have.
In India a male child is valued far and above a female. The ultrasound and abortion industry in that nation is a multi-million dollar concern thanks to people seeking a male over a female. The success of just such a cultural preference has endangered India's population in that numerous males are born only to grow up and find a dwindling pool of females with which to have children.
In the United States such a discrepancy would likewise create problems. Evolution and nature have over millions of years perfected the art of procreation and found balance enough to perpetuate lots of species. For humans to tinker with just such a balance is dangerous. Not only is it dangerous demographically it also increases the risk of genetic tampering that could lead to new disease.
No, its not science fiction. In the 70s and 80s genetic tinkering with crops has led some interesting and scary side effects. Hybrid crops require special handling and nutrition because of its altered DNA, this has led to problems that were not anticipated and required further tinkering to deal with. I would not want to face the nightmare of continued medical and genetic therapy to fix side of effects of choosing my child's gender. Likewise genetically altered crops and animals have caused health concerns in terms of our own food supply. Based on these problems and concerns I would be leery of genetically tinkering with my child.
Since we live in a democracy which runs on capitalism the fact is people with the will and the money can and most likely will start designing their offspring. Democracy means you are usually free to do whatever stupid thing you want to do. Capitalism says if you have the money someone out there can be paid enough to attempt such an undertaking regardless of moral or legal concerns.
Aside from obvious moral and ethical objections the idea of tinkering with your child's DNA is wrong because of the medical risks involved. Keep in mind people with a mind set that they want a designer child will most likely avoid responsibility when something goes wrong. Which means the tax payers would have to pick up the tab to take care of another unwanted child.
For my own personal view I see any child who can beat the biological odds and get born healthy as a miracle. Why add more risk factor to please ones vanity? I love my Son and Daughter equally and appreciate that God saw fit to let me have them. To value one gender over the other is counter to the real reason to have a child, to gain immortality both socially and genetically. If I tinker with my kids DNA don't I imply my own genetic heritage falls short of an imagined idea of an acceptable child. God and Mother Nature seem to have a pretty good handle on this whole reproduction thing, I am not going to monkey with a system that has served us for countless years.
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Yes
Created on: September 08, 2009 Last Updated: September 09, 2009
Should people be allowed to choose their baby's sex?The answer is simple, yes. If there is a safe way to choose the sex of a child, it should be made available. Of course, not everyone would elect to make the decision. Many parents would allow nature, god or whatever they believe to decide.
There are many reasons why allowing parents to decide would benefit both parents and child. Imagine a father, the last male in the family, unable to produce a son to carry on his name. In August of '08, an Egyptian farmer's wife, Ghazala Khamis, gave birth to septuplets in her attempts to have a son. She already had three girls. Now she has six girls and four boys for a total of ten children.
Many families are larger than the parents originally intended, because they could not give up on their attempts of producing the son or daughter they sought after. Having a large family can be financially taxing, as well as very stressful for the parents and children.
Look at the drastically different lives a child would lead having been born to parents that wanted the opposite sex compared to being born to parents that finally had the son or daughter they coveted. The parents and the child would be happier.
It would not be a procedure that was spur of the moment. You would not just be able to go to the doctor and tell him "I'm pregnant, make it a girl." It more than likely would have to be very much like the fertility treatments available currently. The father and mother would meet with a doctor, eggs and semen would have to be collected, fertilized then implanted and cultivated. The egg would simply need to be fertilized with only male or female sperm.
One of the largest arguments against this option is the "don't play god" spiel. When it comes to babies and pregnancy science has made leaps and bounds. No one considers it playing god when doctors save a baby's life thanks to modern technology. Instead, they praise god, thanking him for allowing us to save her.
It is not playing god when a woman miraculously becomes pregnant after a fertility treatment, again we thank god for the treatment's success. Birth control prevents unwanted pregnancies in women that are not prepared or medically able to have children and, yet again, we thank god with relief when the test comes up negative.
God or nature still has many things left to choose. Will the baby have mom's or dad's eyes? Will they be independent, perhaps stubborn or maybe they will be happy-go-lucky and carefree. Even if parents have chosen the sex, it does not guarantee they will get the child they envisioned. Their athlete may be an artist or their ballerina a basketball player. Any parent can attest to the fact that every child is full of surprises, no matter if they are boy or girl.
If available, no one would be forced into it, just like now parents have the option to learn the sex of the baby at the ultrasound or wait until the birth. Choosing the sex would be an elective procedure paid for by the parents. This decision being made available will only effect those that choose to take advantage of it. For those that disagree, they can simply choose not to participate. It is simply unfair to deprive parents that have no apprehensions about making the decision due to the religious or personal feelings of others.
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