Is Britney Spears a danger to her children?

No

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by Nicole Lane

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Ok, I will start off with the fact that I am ON THE FENCE! since there isn't a middle choice I have chosen to go with no, and here's why.

Yes it is obvious she has made some terrible choices and decisions, but as the reports show lately she has been diagnosed with being bipolar, which needs medication in most cases. I feel for Britney, do I agree with the things she does? No not all of them, however many people out here forget that she ISN'T an ordinary person. So her child fell from a highchair..thankfull y her was fine, but if that was me or you that isn't going to result in child services paying you a visit. Children fall and get bumps and bruises. We have all seen enough pictures of her boys to see they are not bruised up and beaten.

My son fell from his crib at 8 months. He was standing up and the side rail fell down and he went out headfirst. We rushed to the emergency room because his mouth was bleeding and I panicked, and the Dr's and nurses are the ones who told me calm down, he is fine and this happens with children, it will be ok. The medical staff wasn't questioning me about it, they knew that it happened and my son wasn't in there every day or every week with another "fall". Britney is in the spotlight, everything EVERYTHING she does is criticized and captured on film. I remember a story about her coming out of the men's bathroom and how that was "bizarre behavior" how many people out there have NEVER used another bathroom? I know I personally have, when you have to go and there is a long line well I have stepped in and used the restroom and gone about my business. Many people have, especially women, we can't exactly go out back behind a dumpster very easily now can we?

In my eyes Britney loves her boys, if she didn't she WOULDN'T see them and she wouldn't have kept them from day one! How many pictures do you see of her with the boys? Why is that a bad thing to take your kid everywhere with you when you run errands? Because she is famous and people like to turn simple things into something else. How many pictures do you see of Kevin with those boys? Atleast Britney had them with her more than she did with a nanny. Stars rely TOO much on nannies these days. Those are you children TAKE CARE OF THEM! Nobody cares if your neighbor that isn't famous takes their children everywhere or if they leave them with a babysitter or nanny all the time.

And how does everyone know that Kevin is a better parent? Doesn't he have other children that he doesn't exactly take care of? We haven't seen a fight for custody with those children, and that makes me wonder...Could it possibly be that he sees the gravytrain in having the kids of BRITNEY SPEARS? If he has those boys he gets a mass amount of childsupport, and what kind of support would he get from the other mother? Infact, you saw Britney with his other children more than you did with him! Wasn't it for a while showing how Britney was taking on the role of caring for his children while he was out partying? Sure a couple things were said, then it was gone as quick as it started and everything turned to Britney.

Now as I said before I don't agree with everything she does, I do feel she should be going to court and fighting a bit harder for her boys, but at the same time she IS going through a great deal, whose to say that Kevin isn't blackmailing her with something? He has seen her at both best and worst, how do we know he doesn't tell her I will bring it public and cause you even MORE pain and drama in your life? He was a "badboy" for quite some time then all of a sudden become a model parent? I think not! It's like the fact that Britney smokes, yes and SO does Kevin! There were pictures of him smoking right after a court date, but nothing was mentioned about that...however if it was Britney then it would be deemed she is killing 500 people and dooming the world on her own.

Why not just let her slip from the spotlight? Yes the spotlight is what keeps her money coming in and what keeps KEVIN'S money coming which in my own personal opinion I feel is why he pushes so hard. But just let it go, don't follow her don't write about her, don't broadcast her problems and news stations. Let it go and give her piece, maybe once she doesn't have 500 cameras in her face 24/7 she will settle down and quit "shocking" people.

I wish her the best of luck and if I could honestly set down with her and have a conversation, I believe it would be a totally different story than what everyone sees. Like with her recent meltdown and "hostage" situation. Of course it is hearsay I don't know first hand, but I read it was because Jayden had bruises all over his legs and she thought he was being abused. If I was in her situation and I saw my son with bruises I would have done the same thing. She didn't harm her child! If she wanted to hurt him she could have, but she didn't. I would have done the exact same thing, take me to jail, but make sure my child is ok in the process. Check out the bruises and watch Kevin's lifestyle a bit more closely. I would do anything and everything for my child, and if it meant not letting you in my house and not returning him then so be it.

I personally think it all stems from Kevin going after custody in the first place and she felt it wouldn't be in the best interest of her boys to be with him. In the beginning she was going to court and doing what she had to do, then she was given less and less with her boys and it has wore her down. You go through that situation and see how you handle it, you aren't going to be able to take on the world with a level head, yes you might be showing a bit more interest or concern and fighting harder, but if you lived her daily life I'm sure you would have a melt down and be a train wreck, or APPEAR to be a trainwreck. As I said I'm on the fence because I don't totally agree one way or another, but I feel deep down she is just overwhelmed and there is more to it all than what everyone knows.

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