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Does competition help or hurt young people?

Results so far:

Help
80% 710 votes Total: 884 votes
Hurt
20% 174 votes
  • 1 of 66

    by Jerry Curtis

    Competition, within reasonable limits, is not only healthy, but vital for a young person's readiness to succeed in life. To deny this is to ignore the nature of the world we inh...read more

  • 2 of 66

    by Dee Cain

    Competition is indeed good for our adolescents. It builds character and prepares them for life. It teaches them to give their best while learning to deal with disappointing mome...read more

  • 3 of 66

    by Joy Rosette

    Competition helps young people if it is used in the right context. Picture a school bully in a playground cornering the timid kid in class or the young track star competing for ...read more

  • 4 of 66

    by Sean Rees

    Without exposing children to competition, without educating a child about the importance of success, you are raising a child ill-equipped to deal with the harsh realities of the...read more

  • 5 of 66

    by Kevin O'Toole

    Competition is a fact of life... the sooner a child learns this, the better. Now, I'm not saying we should be callous as parents and promote some kind of kill or be killed attit...read more

  • 6 of 66

    by McJess

    If competition does anything for young people, it helps prepare them for their future as a productive adult. Sometimes, competition does hurt...especially if you were the child...read more

  • 7 of 66

    by Sienna Kristof

    As a teacher and a mother I feel that it is not competition itself that may harm young people, it is the way they are prepared by their parents and their teachers to deal with c...read more

  • 8 of 66

    by Rich Rivers

    Competition is a motivating factor provided that it is used in the right way and not to ruin other people or become vengeful or violent. Competition must be taken as a nice cha...read more

  • 9 of 66

    by Renee Lash

    When did we all decide mediocrity is acceptable? Somewhere along the way that is exactly what we as a society have done. Denying children the opportunity to compete with each ot...read more

  • 10 of 66

    by Wendy Hepton

    A bit of competition never hurt anyone, being overly competetive did. The saying: It's not the winning it's the taking part is true, You don't have to win to prove to yourself t...read more

  • 11 of 66

    by Gareth Hobbs

    Competition, it's rapidly becoming a four-letter word, when in reality, our whole lives are generally based around competition in one form or another. We support competition am...read more

  • 12 of 66

    by Robin Tidwell

    Competition can certainly be helpful to children, but competition can also be harmful if the drive for said competition is directed from parent to child, in conflict with the ch...read more

  • 13 of 66

    by John Bogan

    Sure there is going to be disappointment in competition, but that does not mean competition hurts children. I remember when I was a kid I ran in a two-mile race for a track tea...read more

  • 14 of 66

    by Kyara Starwater

    Goal! Touchdown! Home run! These timeless words echo through the generations. When did they become a bad thing? The answer is, they weren't a bad thing in the first place, and t...read more

  • by Roxanne Dubarry

    Does competition help young people? The answer is yes, of course it does. Children, first experience competition within the boundaries of their own family. It is common knowledg...read more

  • 16 of 66

    by Bernadette Adkins

    This topic happens to be a very passionate topic for me. I grew up playing recreational league sports. Whether it was softball, basketball or cheer-leading there was always comp...read more

  • 17 of 66

    by Elinda Harrison

    Does competition help or hurt young people? I think competition can both help and hurt young people. Actually, let me rephrase that. Competition in itself will do neither. Th...read more

  • 18 of 66

    by Tim Driver

    If competition is unhealthy, then why are there ratings for all of these Helium articles? Some might say because it is mostly adults writing them. If that is the case, how can a...read more

  • 19 of 66

    by Peggy McBee

    Competition breeds hard working, the desire to do your best, promotes self esteem, teaches many lessons that carry over into everyday life. While some people are set that compe...read more

  • 20 of 66

    by Vicki Andis

    I truly believe that competition is healthy for young people, as long as it is a fair competition. It gives them a chance to prove to themselves, as well as everyone else, that ...read more

  • 1 of 20

    by Randy Browne

    Ancient China has a number of sayings about competition. To name just a few (from memory; not claimed to be direct quotes) .... (1) "Seeking great honor often results in no h...read more

  • 2 of 20

    by margaret hillcroft

    Competition. Where would we be without it? That is a question worthy of serious consideration. Does it hurt young people? I think it does worse. It hurts anyone and everyone ...read more

  • 3 of 20

    by Gina Barr

    THE EXTREME OF AMERICANA "When I go out on the ice, I just think about my skating. I forget it is a competition." -Katarina Witt Wanda Webb Holloway comes to mind. No...read more

  • by Stanley W. Shura

    "Hey, when I was a boy, I had to fight for everything! I had to work, by golly! Nothing was handed to me!" "Don't you come tellin' me you walked away like a sissy and ...read more

  • 5 of 20

    by Gillian Riccio

    A-Parent Success? We've all been at a table-conversation where every parent is loudly talking over the next to ensure that everyone else realizes that their child is the best...read more

  • 6 of 20

    by Sana Fatima

    The beliefs and views of modern society and the people living in it varies greatly from person to person. By the time an individual matures from a young child to an adult, they ...read more

  • 7 of 20

    by Brendan O'Connor

    Competition not only harms the young it harms society. I recently had to decide between 2 software suppliers. Their products were fairly similar, pricing not too far apart ...read more

  • by Swan Herbert

    While it is a course of wisdom to study the contributions of others as well as their approaches used to attain success, competing for superiority within the status-quo can be a ...read more

  • 9 of 20

    by Amelia Love

    One of my favorite childhood stories is of a society that strives to make everyone average. Ballerina dancers wear weights on their legs to make them awkward and clumsy. Telev...read more

  • 10 of 20

    by Esther Avinoam

    Every time I am placed in a competition setting I seem to lose my strength. I can feel this uneasiness in my guts. Competition turns EVERYONE and that could be your best friend,...read more

  • by Ethel Smith

    Let's face the facts, competition can be both good and bad. It all depends on the character of an individual and how they value one another. Young people are taught at an early ...read more

  • 12 of 20

    by Martine

    Nowadays competitive natures being raised in adolescents are hurting their futures. Why? What could possibly make something so factual about life be hurting the youth of tomorro...read more

  • 13 of 20

    by Jerry Hastings

    I take it by the title that competition with others is what is being discussed here. Competition with others take away ones full potential. Competition with yourself on the othe...read more

  • 14 of 20

    by S.E. Whitbeck

    Encouraging children to be competitive so they can deal with the reality of life sends the message that there is not enough in life to go around. There are appropriate places fo...read more

  • 15 of 20

    by Melba Dagan

    Competition is the underlying theme in all school activities, whether academic or athletic. But is this a good thing to teach our young people? In fact, is it good for anyone?...read more

  • 16 of 20

    by Matei Monica

    A View for Tomorrow. We live in a world of competition... When it comes to decide if a competition or another hurts the answer is Yes. Yes for the moment when the spirit is ...read more

  • 17 of 20

    by Tonya Bailey

    Competition all to commonly becomes harmful to young people. It is especially harmful when overzealous parents become involved. People are always focusing on trying to be better...read more

  • by Amelia Batista

    I think it hurts them because life is not a competition.You don't want them to be too competitive.Because if they lose their gonna think they are stupid and don't know anything....read more

  • 19 of 20

    by Mike Mian

    Let's first define the meaning of competition. Competition is the attainment of a results by different individuals or groups, measured either objectively or subjectively, where ...read more

  • 20 of 20

    by Tom Wall

    compettition leaves scars 1 my past is full of pain and mental suffering from competition! School for me was a real nightmare! Test days made me sick! I would tell my moth...read more

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