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| Acceptance | 70% | 140 votes | Total: 200 votes | |
| Confusion | 30% | 60 votes |
I've had quite a few friends over the years that were adopted and I would have to say that they are the least confused and most accepted people I know. They're usually in better...read more
As an adoptee in a closed adoption, and a birthmother in an open adoption, I think that open adoption aids in the acceptance for the child, since his or her questions can be ans...read more
by Bill Whitney
I can not really speak from the child's side of this but I would think that is would make the acceptance easier if there was ever any problem in the first place. I would think...read more
I am a product of an open adoption at a time when it probably was not referred to as such. I am 49 years old and at 8 days old I was sent to my foster/adoptive parents. The agre...read more
I believe an open adoption aids in acceptance. When a child is given up, for whatever reason, eventually it all comes out. It can be figured out from being told by the adoptive ...read more
by April Nourse
When I was born, I entered a crazy, turbulant world. My father wanted nothing to do with raising a child, leaving my mother and me on our own. As if that was not enough for my...read more
I would think that open adoption would lead to acceptance. And the freedom then to open up culturally worldwide would be beneficial to everyone. Someday everyone would be more a...read more
by Nikole Keith
Even though we live in the 20th century, The race card seems to be apart of a lot of things in our lives. Its sad to even say this, but its true. I think acceptance is a vague w...read more
by Ms. D. Bleu
I wasn't angry. I wasn't sad. I had no real clue how to react. I was only about 6 years old; what the heck did I know about the word adopted, or what its repercussions meant?...read more
Granted I was not adopted and I'm lucky enough to have parents that are still married, but I have been around foster kids and adopted kids and I have seen how emotionally damagi...read more
by Joanne Smith
My husband and I are just venturing into the adoption process. I have three children of my own and would very much like to adopt an older child in a few years time. I must adm...read more
I am a birth mother to a girl resulting in a "closed" adoption. The stipulation in the adoptive process 21 years ago was I was given the opportunity to sign papers stating when...read more
It really depends on the situation, I would say for the most part it creates confusion, especially in the early years of adoption. Keep in mind a lot of babies and kids are give...read more
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