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Should good grades be rewarded with cash?

Results so far:

Yes
41% 319 votes Total: 771 votes
No
59% 452 votes
  • 1 of 38

    by Amelia Love

    Several years ago, I would have written to the "No" side in this debate. I thoroughly believed that the best reward was the knowledge of a job well done. Children should be pr...read more

  • 2 of 38

    by Nicki Marks

    I'm not a parent yet, but I see no reason why good grades in school shouldn't be rewarded with cash. This follows a reward method where children, or even teenagers starting coll...read more

  • 3 of 38

    by Hope Darby

    Human beings are motivated by reward. In the working world, adults are motivated by cash bonuses, extra paid-vacation days, and free lunches through sales contests, quota races,...read more

  • 4 of 38

    by Ray Anderson

    The debate will go on as long as there are students and parents and an economy based on money. Should a child be rewarded with cash for making good grades? As a child my gra...read more

  • 5 of 38

    by Morgan Leigh

    My 9 year old son is not a bad student. Far from it, in fact. However, during the last couple of months of school, he gets a little lazy. On his last report card, he had an F...read more

  • 6 of 38

    by Thomas Baskin

    When we as parents send our kids to school, we fully expect them to do everything that is necessary to obtain a good grade. Unfortunately that is not how the situation goes with...read more

  • 7 of 38

    by Magu Nguru

    I remember, when I was in primary school (grade1-8) my cousin, a girl was always top in her school. This made her parents very proud and they ensured all her relatives knew abou...read more

  • 8 of 38

    by Lisa Fillers

    Lots of praise and the payment of report card money can be a wonderful incentive to a child to earn better grades. Those who argue against it may call payment for grades a bribe...read more

  • 9 of 38

    by D. Anderson

    School is supposed to aid our children in the real world; it gives them the knowledge and tools necessary for life after high school. The grades a child receives in school not ...read more

  • 10 of 38

    by Katarina Harstad

    Good grades come at a price, and that price, and that price is hard work, commitment, and self discipline. If you are a parent and you find yourself lucky enough to have a child...read more

  • 11 of 38

    by Matthew J. Geiger

    Getting children to do well in school is at the top of any concerned parent's priorities; therefore, parents are willing to try almost anything to help their children succeed. ...read more

  • 12 of 38

    by Luann Dawkins

    I have thought long and hard on this subject. I struggled with this when my child was young and doing well in school. I ultimately decided that reward of any kind builds self ...read more

  • 13 of 38

    by Elizabeth Garrett-Linhart

    A parent's role is to prepare children for the life in the outside world. In our capitalist society, paying children for good grades causes the children to learn more, make bet...read more

  • 14 of 38

    by Jeffrey Moore

    The topic up for debate is "should good grades be rewarded with cash?" Well my answer, as a proud parent of three above average children, is an overwhelming YES. Why would we no...read more

  • 15 of 38

    by Cynthia Raecker

    "Catch your children being good" A tried and true parenting method, right up there with SLPsloppy lavish praise. The dreaded report card, for many, can be a true litmus test fo...read more

  • 16 of 38

    by Ann Palmieri

    Absolutely! Aren't you rewarded that way? I taught high school for 38 years. In those years I learned to bribe my students with candy, gifts, and other goodies; therefore I bel...read more

  • 17 of 38

    by Tatiana Tsyboulskaia

    There are two sides to the story: there are kids who want to learn and there are kids who do it because they are given something for it. It's very complicated, as you might see ...read more

  • 18 of 38

    by Rhonda M.

    We press our children to earn good grades. We tell them how important it is to listen and be interested in their school work. We "want" them to want to learn and do great school...read more

  • by cyndihaltom52

    This may sound a bit strange to some of you but I couldn't find an answer for this question that satisfied me so I said yes. I have taught my children that their first only tru...read more

  • 20 of 38

    by Mikel Shane

    I hear a lot of controversy about parents offering cash rewards to their children for getting good grades. It is thought to establish a sense of pressure or expectation. It is...read more

  • 1 of 29

    by Trent Sketch

    I can understand the incentive to reward students with cash for good grades. The motivation of getting enough money for that new video game or trip to the mall can be all a stu...read more

  • 2 of 29

    by Alisha Link

    I really do not understand why a child should be paid for doing what is expected of him. As a child and teen, I consistently received high grades and never once did my parents ...read more

  • 3 of 29

    by Carol Gioia

    When your student grows up and has the ability to obtain superior employment or a lucrative career because he is well educated, he will be monetarily rewarded. In the meantime,...read more

  • 4 of 29

    by amy perry

    I think that awarding good grades with cash would be a bad idea. Kids would definitely become more competitive but this would just open doors to more bullying both from the kids...read more

  • 5 of 29

    by Hazel Adams

    You've given your child money for every A or B that they receive on their report card. One time, you don't have the extra money to pay for a perfect report card. Can you be cert...read more

  • 6 of 29

    by Barry Marcus

    People achieve great things with the right incentives. Children may be able to improve their 'D' grade average to a 'B' or even an 'A' given the right encouragement. Cash incent...read more

  • 7 of 29

    by Alex Samson

    n a word, 'no'. It sounds corny, and I'm sure I'll draw lots of fire for this, but the real incentive for an child as school is their education. It's a classic example of our sh...read more

  • 8 of 29

    by Verusha Singh

    In a world where getting something for nothing is almost a mythological concept on par with Atlantis, is this something we wish to continue with the youths of tomorrow? Or have ...read more

  • 9 of 29

    by Maria K.

    It is my personal belief that as long as a child lives with his/her parents and does not contribute to the household financially, the child should not be paid for good grades or...read more

  • 10 of 29

    by Bonnie Thomas

    What will rewarding students with cash that have earned good grades do for our children? Handing out cash to students for good grades will delight those students that are alrea...read more

  • 11 of 29

    by Lisa Web

    Rewarding children for "good" grades is not promoting anything "good" for them. I think that rewards should be saved for above and beyond, to teach good study skills, good work...read more

  • 12 of 29

    by Jessica Collins

    I want to start out by admitting that I received cash for every A that I earned on every report card from kindergarten through twelfth grade. My grandparents would give me a hal...read more

  • 13 of 29

    by Daniel Selzer

    How much earlier on are we going to instill in our children that "Money Is Everything"? What's next? Maybe giving babies rattles filled with quarters, rather than beads? I mean...read more

  • 14 of 29

    by PH1966

    It doesn't seem right to me that a parent would give their child cash for good grades. A $50 gift may be one thing towards something they really want, but thousands of dollars f...read more

  • 15 of 29

    by Jennifer Hansen

    Many believe that if we pay children to succeed then they will. Many teenagers believe that since their parents get paid to go to work, they should also get paid to go to schoo...read more

  • 16 of 29

    by Lana Neville

    Grades are awarded on merit. A child works hard, studies, pays attention in class and does well in exams. If one was to offer a child a monetary reward for achieving good grades...read more

  • 17 of 29

    by Ifediba Nwokedi

    Rewarding your child or adolescent with money for good grade they receive is an option but there is downside to this approach. Working in a secondary school I have often heard s...read more

  • 18 of 29

    by Mary Olujinmi

    In the modern life of parenting, expectations have been reduced in line with parenting abilities, or at least, self-belief of parents in their abilities. Simply put, a reward ...read more

  • 19 of 29

    by Kellie Simon

    What happened to teaching our children that we have responsibility to ourselves and society? Give him cash you say for making the grade, I don't think so. Maybe teach him that i...read more

  • 20 of 29

    by Judith Otto

    What's a good grade? A top one. How do you get it? By putting in a lot of effort coupled with being a good learner. In my job as a teacher I see it all the time: some children,...read more

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