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No
Created on: April 24, 2008
This is a valid question. If a person wishes to be married to multiple people at the same time, is it not their prerogative to do so? Is it up to the Federal or State government to decide and then allow or prevent this? Shouldn't individuals be free to decide for themselves? The issue of polygamy and its legalization carry with it a host of other questions and issues, of which go far beyond simply polygamy.
At the very core of this debate stands the institute of marriage, and what it means in America today. The definition of marriage continues to be a hot topic at this time in our culture. As the debate goes on, who's to say what it is? Certainly views on marriage differ between individuals, communities and states or there would be no discussion. But certainly as a society, we hold on to the institution of marriage with sanctity and value. And not just now, but in our country's history as well. It has been commonly understood and acknowledged that marriage is only between one man and one woman.
One's view on this issue of polygamy is foremost determined undoubtedly, by one's view of marriage and its definition. Certainly we all have presuppositions. We bring them along with us in every discussion, decision we make or position we take. I am no different, nor are you. Because I presuppose that God instituted marriage, this has a direct effect on my opinion of whether or not polygamy or plural marriage should be legalized.
In order to formulate a concise answer to this question we must first begin where marriage did. With God. Marriage was God's first earthy institution. Before there was a government, and long before the church, He ordained marriage and the family as the basic building block of society. God defines marriage in his Word. In Genesis chapter two God determines that "it is not good for man to be alone", and "for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh". It's interesting that the end result should be oneness, between one man and one woman.
Now, I understand the notion that marriage begins with God therefore we must begin with his intent of it, in order to come to a right or wrong answer to the question, will probably not be very popular. But if we do not begin with God, then can there really be a right or wrong answer? If yes, based on what? Based on the relative morals of the individual? Of the Culture, at any given time?
Certainly this issue boils down to our presuppositions on marriage. I can make valid points that polygamy has had negative effects on our society. We can find countless stories from children who grew up having experienced this practice. Stories of underage women who have been abused and forced to marry. I can make the same argument the courts did, as in Reynolds v United States in 1878. The First Amendment does not mean people can use their religious faith as a reason to break laws. The First Amendment clause protects the individual's right to believe, but does not prevent the government from passing laws restricting action. The court determined that polygamy is an "offense against society".
These are definitely valid points against legalizing polygamy. But what if one day our culture reaches the point where polygamy is not considered an "offense against society"? If our culture decides that abusing women and statutory rape is not "that bad"? What then? Is it right then? No. And that is why my answer to this question lies with God's definition of how marriage is to be viewed. Between one man and one woman. Marriage is the very heart of the family; it is what all civilizations are made up of. A society that undermines marriage is a society that does not honor and protect marriage, and will eventually undermine its very existence.
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Yes
Created on: November 18, 2009 Last Updated: November 19, 2009
Should polygyny be legalized?
There is nothing to "legalize", at least so far as those who can read the Bill of Rights (First Amendment) are concerned, or for those who understand that God ordained marriage, and not government. Our own Declaration of Independence affirms that the proper function of government is to "secure these Rights" granted by our Creator, not criminalize them.
In particular, then, those who claim to care about what the Author of Liberty, and also the Author of the Bible, has to say about the issue should study both His Law and our own 'supreme law' carefully! Since our national government is prohibited from "preventing the free exercise" of one's faith, even those who do not share a belief in the Bible must recognize that the case for polygyny is very real, and very consistent. It is a well-accepted legal principle that statutes in violation of higher law, either the Constitution or God's, are "null and void". Finally, it is important to understand that ALL of the principles of our own common law, the early letters of the Committees of Correspondence, and the debates preceding the battle for independence and the later ratification of the Constitution, accept without question the premise that man's law must be in harmony with the principles of the Bible.
Some people by this point have probably noted that the correct word, "polygyny", has been carefully used in this essay rather than the more general term, "polygamy". This is because, whether one "understands His plan" or not, and whether others even agree or not, a man may have more than one marriage Covenant according to the Bible, but a woman may not. (The proper term for the Biblically-prohibite d practice of multiple husbands is "polyandry".) Even the most superficial reading of the myriad comments in the Bible concerning marriage makes this point undeniable - whether it fits modern "politically-correct " sentiment or not.
A proper study of the many references, examples, ordinances, and even practical guidelines in the Bible that allow or specify polygyny would require an entire book, and not merely a short essay, to examine. Only a few, however, should make the issue quite clear. Certainly the multiple wives of the patriarchs (Abraham and Jacob, most obviously, but also many others, such as Gideon) make it clear that God never prohibited polygyny, and He also said, "I change not".
King David was called by the Bible "a man after God's own heart", and - in spite of being sharply criticized for his well-documented sins - was NOT criticized for his several wives. Indeed, God even told David that He "would have given [him] more"! A number of verses specify the conditions under which a man could, or even should, take more than one wife. (Ex. 21:10, Deut. 21:15, the "Levirate Law" of Lev. 25, the provisions in Lev. 18, etc.) It should be obvious that God NEVER says "Thou shalt not..." do something, and then provide procedures for doing it anyway!
It is also well worth noting at this point that there is a big difference in law between prohibiting something, mandating it, and allowing it. The question of whether polygyny is something "you should do" is unrelated to the issue of whether or not government has the lawful power to PROHIBIT something that God clearly allows. After all, even the Apostle Paul wrote that he thought there were many people who should not get married - but that opinion has not (at least not yet, anyway) - been used to justify laws against all marriage.
More and more people who choose to study God's Word for themselves are surprised, or even shocked, to find that not only did God never prohibit a man from taking more than one wife, but He never changed His mind about it. Jesus never said otherwise, and even at least two prophets (Jeremiah and Ezekiel) spoke metaphorically of God having two wives. Even those who do not find the evidence compelling must admit that there are those who do, and can make a sound case from the Bible for their "religious belief". That fact alone should be sufficient to convince those who deny the Bible, but still venerate the Bill of Rights, to support the principle that the "free exercise" of religion CANNOT be construed in any way to allow federal prohibition of Biblical polygyny.
Whether or not one chooses to practice a particular style of worship, of prayer, of diet, or of marriage, is, and according to our own Bill of Rights, remains, a matter largely between ourselves and God. Both history and that same Bible also clearly demonstrate that when we deviate from those standards, and from what we claim to believe, a nation inevitably suffers.
Polygyny does not need to be "legalized", because it is already Lawful. All that is necessary is that cops and courts follow what is actually already written.
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