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Created on: May 04, 2010 Last Updated: May 05, 2010
We scroll our crushes' names on our notebooks growing up; we practice our signature with different last
Created on: July 26, 2009
Let's state our assumptions: We are speaking of married women in a North American setting where traditionally
Created on: May 18, 2009 Last Updated: May 19, 2009
For most women, the custom of taking their husband's last name on their wedding day is something they
by Robin Landry
Created on: September 16, 2009 Last Updated: September 17, 2009
When I married the first time at age twenty-four, I briefly experimented with using my maiden name
by Warren
Created on: August 09, 2008
Married women should switch to their husband's surname.This seems appropriate as they are marrying into
Created on: July 06, 2008
"We come together today to unite in marriage..." or some variation of these words are the standard prologue
Created on: July 01, 2009 Last Updated: July 03, 2009
According to the new college edition dictionary, the term Marriages defined as "The legal union of a
Created on: July 23, 2008 Last Updated: August 01, 2008
Choosing whether to keep your family's name, a name that has identified you during your childhood and
by Jenny Tolley
Created on: August 26, 2009
When I married my husband, I chose to change my last name to his. I made that decision because I knew
by Renee Morgan
Created on: March 03, 2009 Last Updated: March 04, 2009
Yes, a married woman should switch to her husband's last name. I think that the woman should switch
by Emese Tuza
Created on: February 16, 2009 Last Updated: February 18, 2009
I am a newlywed, my husband and I just got married last September. The first reality check came when
by Kate Johns
Created on: April 13, 2008
Married women should switch to their spouse's last name because it is a time-honored tradition like
by Wendy Hepton
Created on: July 02, 2008 Last Updated: October 23, 2011
There are those who don't switch their last name, but I seriously have to wonder about their motives.
Created on: August 10, 2008
The question of whether or not a woman should keep her maiden name is an important question. There are
by A.E.McGrath
Created on: September 15, 2008 Last Updated: April 01, 2010
The decision to keep your name or switch to your husband's depends on individual preference and mutual
by Meg Jack
Created on: April 21, 2008 Last Updated: March 09, 2011
Does it honestly make sense to keep your last name when married? I'm getting married in a year and I
by D. Warnaar
Created on: February 18, 2008 Last Updated: September 20, 2009
So you want to share you're life with him, but you're not willing to share his name? That simply does
Created on: November 20, 2007
When two people fall in love, they spend as much time together as possible. When they are apart, each
Created on: November 10, 2007
To be honest, I thought a long time before changing my name. In my family, women replace their middle
by Jonte Rhodes
Created on: October 06, 2007
In my opinion a woman should generally take her husbands name unless she has a good reason for not doing
Keep
Created on: October 02, 2007 Last Updated: July 08, 2011
Women worldwide go through many name changes upon marriage (or marriages), which makes this topic interesting.
Created on: July 20, 2008
It's an archaic custom that is no longer relevant. In today's society, women don't leave their family
Created on: January 11, 2010
“So are you changing your last name?” Before she even considers the dress, the location,
by Carole Ligi
Created on: June 30, 2009 Last Updated: July 10, 2009
Names identify who each of us are as individuals. Whether a woman chooses to keep her maiden name or
Created on: February 18, 2009 Last Updated: February 20, 2009
What's in a name? Everything. That's why the debate over whether married women should keep their name
Created on: June 16, 2008
The most appropriate choice I've ever heard of doesn't fall into either of these choices but instead
by Bhavya Dabas
Created on: October 26, 2009
A person's name, for men and women alike, is part of their identity. An identity which they have created
by Albert Lee
Created on: March 28, 2008 Last Updated: January 19, 2012
I think that women should not change their name after marriage. They have been doing it for centuries,
by Jade Brooks
Created on: April 23, 2009
Should married woman keep their last name or switch to their husband? There has been a tremendous amount
Created on: March 13, 2010 Last Updated: March 14, 2010
It has been a long standing tradition in France that a spouse would take her husband' name when she
Created on: April 24, 2009
The question of keeping one's own name strikes at the heart of the unequal social relationship between
Created on: October 04, 2007
Where did the idea of a person changing the last name come from? Who proclaimed themselves as ruler
Created on: February 14, 2009
I think that women should opt to keep their maiden name to keep a separate identity from their husbands.
I
by Sharon Kay
Created on: April 23, 2009 Last Updated: April 24, 2009
A woman's choice whether to keep her maiden name or switch to her husband's is a personal choice depending
by Ana Choi
Created on: May 16, 2008
I am a Latin American born Chinese and I have two last names, the first last name corresponds to my
Created on: June 24, 2009
To begin with, I want to make it clear that I've done both. With my first husband, I HAD to take his
by Naomi Trego
Created on: October 27, 2008 Last Updated: October 12, 2011
I was born with a last name that was difficult to spell and more so to pronounce. The doctor who delivered
by Nadia Ghanny
Created on: December 02, 2007 Last Updated: March 22, 2011
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What's in a name? This is a personal choice, which should be made between the
by Pan Sea
Created on: March 05, 2009 Last Updated: March 06, 2009
I myself had a very hard time dealing with the name issue when I got married. My husband and I have
Created on: April 08, 2008
Married women have a given name at birth and live their whole lives with it. They should not have to