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Should women be allowed to breastfeed in public areas?

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No
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No

by Jeanine Kelly

Created on: September 22, 2007   Last Updated: September 24, 2007

I saw a story on the news today that caught my attention, not only because I am a woman, but also because I am about to become a mother. A woman was at an outdoor, public mall when her son got hungry. She asked if she could go into one of the store's dressing rooms to breastfeed her son, and they told her no. She then took her son outside, sat on a bench, and commenced feeding him, in front of God and everyone. THEN, she got offended when a security guard asked her to either go into the restroom or leave.
While on the news, she demonstrated how she had been feeding her child. She simply lifted her shirt and bra, and he latched on. She didn't try to cover up or even be tasteful about it, and she's offended that people complained about it? I'm sorry, but as someone who frequents that very mall, and a soon-to-be mother, I feel that they were completely in their rights as a business to ask her to go somewhere else. While, in the state of Texas, it is legal for a woman to breastfeed anywhere she is permitted to be, I know for a fact that is not something I want to see.
As a soon-to-be mother, I have a few comments for women who think this behavior is acceptable. Number one, there's a reason they invented the breast pump. $35 at Wal-Mart, ladies.
Number two, just because it's a natural thing doesn't give us the right to do it in a public places where it would obviously make people uncomfortable. Burping and farting are natural, yet socially considered rude. Peeing is natural, but are you going to pop a squat in the middle of the food court just to avoid walking the few hundred feet to the bathroom? For that matter, it's natural for men's testicles to itch, yet we constantly complain about men walking around scratching themselves.
Number three. No matter how hot you think you are, flopping your boob out in the middle of the mall to feed a screaming baby is NOT attractive, no matter who you are. It makes people uncomfortable, and when you're in a public place, you have to take PUBLIC opinion into consideration.
Here are a couple of suggestions. If you are going out, either pump yourself and bring it along in a thermal diaper bag (yes they sell for pretty cheap), or bring a couple of bottles with formula in them so that all you have to do is add water. If that doesn't work for you, go sit in your car or in the bathroom. Those are the only two places people can't complain about you doing it. There are ways to avoid being harassed and embarrassed about such a thing.
Just remember, this is not a time when you need to flaunt what you got. No one wants to see it.

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Yes

by Mandy Donoghue

Created on: January 08, 2009   Last Updated: January 15, 2009

Mothers choosing to bottle-feed their young do so in public, so mothers choosing to breastfeed their young should also be permitted to do so in public. Both types of women are simply providing nourishment for their young, and as any mother knows, when a child is hungry, he or she wants food fast. Breastfeeding mothers should not be intimidated, or worse legally penalized, simply for doing as nature intended.

With the materialization of the human species, women breastfeeding their offspring in public has been the norm. Some people may argue times change, but breasts have not changed. They continue to work successfully as nature intended transcending cultures for centuries.

Yet, hullabaloo ensued back in April 2006 Breast-Feed or Else when the World Health Organization made statements implying children's health at risk if not breastfed. What really has changed is society's impression of breasts as sexual objects rather than nourishing objects. Even Facebook declared breastfeeding pictures obscene and banned such photos from its website.

People obsessed with breasts' sexual associations are often critical of women publicly breastfeeding because they view the act as obscene. For persons well aware of breasts' original and impressive function to sustain human life, the decision to breastfeed is automatic, resulting in a bonding experience with their babies. Sustaining human life though is not enough to settle this debate.

Besides making women breastfeeding in public uncomfortable by making snide remarks or asking them to move somewhere private, myths exist. These myths give some women an out of breastfeeding altogether. Women are led to believe falsities in a push by some manufacturers and ill informed individuals that bottle-feeding is better or rather more appropriate for their children.

Some of the myths perpetuated include not enough milk production, always painful, and baby not gaining weight. Refuting these untrue statements is imperative to support and protect a woman's right to feed her child whenever and wherever she wishes just like any other parent out their choosing to bottle-feed their baby manmade formula or perhaps worse - cow's milk. Increasing the number of women publicly breastfeeding is essential for the movement to be permitted everywhere.

Luckily mothers can consult La Leche League International for guidance. Some resources available include answers to questions, lists of providers specializing in the lactation field and legislation specific to the mother's locality. Most important, the myths, of which there are many, are disproved.

Nursing a child in public is necessary for proper milk production. If feedings are delayed or women nurse too infrequently, milk production may begin to diminish. Breastfeeding early and as often as the baby is hungry is important. There are RARE occurrences when a mother produces insufficient amounts of milk but remedies exist.

Once taught how to breastfeed, nursing in public is easy and can even be accomplished while walking around. Women should not be afraid to breastfeed; it is not always painful. Breasts may be tender at the onset of breastfeeding but discomfort subsides once the baby is correctly attached. If pain persists, common medical conditions may be the cause and treatments are readily available by visiting a knowledgeable health care provider.

A good mother attends to her baby's every need. Babies eat a lot and frequently, as they are growing daily and need to gain weight. Failure to thrive is not due to poor milk nutrition but rather inadequate intake. Mothers generally, malnourished or not, produce milk adequate for their babies. They just need to be shown by a professional how to correctly breastfeed and get into a routine that suits their child's eating habits. Breastfeeding in public is crucial for a mother to properly feed her child.

Breasts are everywhere. Covers of magazines. Peeking out of tops. Flaunting on the beach. And, that's fine, but they were intended to nourish offspring. Upcoming generations will surely debate the breastfeeding in public issue, but one fact will remain breastfeeding is best for babies and should be allowed in private and public locations. Perhaps if more women are photographed and publicly breastfeeding, it's tabooness' for the immature will subside.

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