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Is it acceptable for a parent to vent to their kids about the other parent?

Results so far:

No
92% 650 votes Total: 704 votes
Yes
8% 54 votes
  • 1 of 61

    by David Chaproniere

    A few years ago, I read a most interesting article about modern parenting. In it, the writer suggested that parents want to be friends to their children, when they should in fac...read more

  • 2 of 61

    by Joe Owens

    People are people, meaning parents will have moments when there patience is depleted, whether the cause is their job, schedule, children, spouse or an amalgamation of the collec...read more

  • 3 of 61

    by Skyra

    It is never acceptable for children to be brought into their parents' fights. Now, that isn't to say that it will never happen. Parents are human, and no one is perfect. All hum...read more

  • 4 of 61

    by Kim Sharpe

    It is never alright to bring children into an adult relationship. They are children and their viewpoints and opinions have absolutely no bearing between a man and wife. In fac...read more

  • 5 of 61

    by Sarah Bailey

    It is not acceptable for parents to vent to their children about the other parent. Parents, though imperfect, should have the presence of mind to put their children's needs befo...read more

  • 6 of 61

    by Kimberly Chitwood

    I will never talk bad about my daughter's father to her, and I won't teach her to dislike/hate her father. She won't be able to blame her feelings toward her father on me. When ...read more

  • 7 of 61

    by Joanna S Kelley

    I lived this experience as a child, and it has taken me until now, in my thirties, to even begin to sort of just a little bit recover from the damage. Divorce is painful, and...read more

  • 8 of 61

    by G. Schettino

    Acceptable? Never! Understandable? Yes. Unless you are a saint, it happens in almost every family in some degree. And it's simply because we are human. It may not be as ...read more

  • 9 of 61

    by Kimbelrey Chaffee

    Is it never acceptable for a parent to vent to their kids about the other parent! Venting your feelings of anger towards the other parent will create many problems between you ...read more

  • 10 of 61

    by Pat Lunsford

    Children are not emotionally or mentally capable of dealing with parental conflict and should never be subjected to it. They should also never be put into a position of having t...read more

  • 11 of 61

    by Jan Castagnaro

    Is it Acceptable for a Parent to Vent to Their Kids About the Other Parent? There are many instances where a one part of a marital couple feels the need to vent and not bot...read more

  • 12 of 61

    by Lori Mccowin

    Never.. yet I don't know a single solitary person who hasn't done it. My parents did it, my husbands parents do it, and I've done it to my own daughter. We aren't unique. Its do...read more

  • 13 of 61

    by Elizabeth Rogers

    When one person addresses an issue with anyone other than the one he/she is upset with, it is called "triangulation". This is a passive/aggressive way of dealing with problems a...read more

  • by Autumn Lebeau

    The answer is a firm, resounding "absolutely not!" Yet, it does happen. We're human, and we all have days or situations that pull the worst from us. Or at the very least, the ne...read more

  • 15 of 61

    by Barbara Kasey Smith

    I don't think it is acceptable for a parent to vent to their kids about the other parent. I believe that negative venting can help to destroy the love, respect, and relationship...read more

  • 16 of 61

    by Edith Myers

    No, it is definitely not acceptable for a parent to vent to their children about the other parent. Parents are adults and they should have the ability to resist the urge to vent...read more

  • 17 of 61

    by Kristal Mcvicar

    Recent research has concluded that adolescent or young adult children brought into the middle of a high-conflict marriage between their parents contributes to those children (no...read more

  • 18 of 61

    by Arthur Gibson

    No, it is never acceptable for one parent to vent to their children about the other parent. Issues between the parents should be kept between the parents and the children shoul...read more

  • 19 of 61

    by Gabriella Samms

    If your battle to gain custody of your children after divorce has resulted in your ex coming out the winner, it may simply be due to what you've been saying. To involve your chi...read more

  • 20 of 61

    by A.D. Beddow

    I guess I was kind of lucky, my parents never fought or talked down about each other in front of us while they were together. When I turned eighteen and moved out, so did my mot...read more

  • 1 of 9

    by Trisha Vaughn

    This is a breaking news bulletin! This just in: Parents are human beings too! Okay, a bit dramatic, but sometimes I have to wonder if people forget this delightful little fa...read more

  • 2 of 9

    by Summayyah Sadiq-Ojibara

    I guess I cannot get away with a 'YesNo' answer can I? Should a parent vent about the other spouse to the child? In the first instance, it is very important to establish to ...read more

  • 3 of 9

    by Nicolle Shanman

    With cyber and classroom bullying on the rise in our communities, many parents, especially women, are victims of bullying by their spouse. it is then, that venting about the oth...read more

  • 4 of 9

    by Torey Stewart

    Why would it not be acceptable? Who in their right mind wouldn't want their child to go to a trusting adult, like their significant other for help? Who cares if they are carryin...read more

  • 5 of 9

    by Mr.Dayfield Lewis

    Pa Called Ma Crazy and Ma Called Pa Evil. I don't find anything wrong with a parent confiding to a child. In fact, it is prudent to do so, leading to the child's upbringing. ...read more

  • 6 of 9

    by Shirleigh

    I am the only daughter to my parents, out of just two children. My elder brother has moved out a long time ago, and I am the only child left still living with my parents and sha...read more

  • 7 of 9

    by Judith Otto

    Are my husband and I always of the same opinion? Of course we aren't. No matter how long we've been together, we regularly disagree on lots of issues like the best colour for ne...read more

  • 8 of 9

    by stormy waters

    Our children can benefit from healthy venting to discuss issues hurting the family. The worst thing you can do is always act in denial of certain behavoirs and belifs are harmfu...read more

  • 9 of 9

    by Amy Terry

    It really depends on the age of the child and the situation. I think if the other parent is the reason the child may not get to do something then the child should know the truth...read more

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